28 / 04 / 2018
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The proper etiquette for cancelling an appointment

It’s a common occurrence, a lovely courtesan prepares herself and her room to receive a gentleman for an intimate encounter filled with carnal pleasures. The phone rings, a text message or email comes in…it’s a no-go. The client cannot make it.

Life throws random stuff at us and sometimes things just won’t go as planned, but if you wish to truly be regarded as a gentleman, you must keep your word and respect your engagements.

If you absolutely must cancel, please be as diligent as possible and inform the lovely lady as soon as your impediment arises. Time is money for every professional; an Escort is a professional, and should be treated as such. You wouldn’t stand-up a 300$/hour lawyer and expect him to help you when your next legal impasse arises, would you ?

Be mindful of the medium used for your cancellation. A true heartfelt phone call is best; do not hide behind a text message, an email, a WhatsApp message; it might look like you do not have the fortitude to face the fire; lying and disrespecting people comes a lot easier through a digital screen than it does on a phone call where people can gauge every intonation of your voice with as much interest as the words you use.

A gentleman or an honest party to a contract would also find a way to compensate or offer a conciliatory gesture towards the neglected party. Be a little more generous upon your next visit; take the lovely lady to dinner, bring a bottle of her favorite Champagne, a daily pass to a spa; use your imagination. Whatever you do, DO NOT forget to apologize when you cancel AND when you see each other again. Classy courtesans, like those at TheVelvetRooms, understand; they get that family members pass away, etc, but “the dog ate my homework” excuse will not stand with them; insulting their intelligence only adds insult to injury.

DO NOT, compound your error by cancelling again, the very next time you are supposed to see each other. Gentlemen, be advised that serial cancellations will get you blacklisted with the ladies, their agency and/or their associates. The word gets around fast, especially with high-end ladies who often demand references from other courtesans before meeting a new client.

Finally, escorts are not second class citizens and should not be treated as such. A lost hour is not easily rebooked on short notice; it might involve extending her working day, adding an extra day to her schedule or just having to go without the donation altogether. High-end restaurants often demand a deposit for a reservation even though walk-in business can easily fill an empty table; escorts that respect themselves do not have walk-in business, remember that. The nature of the business is such that all these uncertainties can throw even the most professional lady off her game. If you like your women to be “in the moment “, with no distractions; don’t provide them with any; and please do not ruin the moment for the next gentleman that did show up on time…

J.R. for TheVelvetRooms 

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