Should you shave your body hair before meeting an escort?

Good question!

It’s really a matter of preference, although, at least in certain circles, “The bush is back,” I think that many people today have a strange aversion to body hair (especially “down there”).

A lot of it has to do with fashion and trends. Fashion is cyclical. Just like clothing styles, trends in grooming (like hairstyles, facial hair, and yes, pubic hair) come and go in cycles.

Some will love your body hair

In the seventies, having (a lot of) pubic hair was something normal. And today still, in many cultures, body hair is considered a sign of masculinity and maturity. Women in these contexts may find men with body hair more attractive because it aligns with traditional views of male virility and strength.

Some escorts will find your body hair attractive because it feels natural and signals maturity and masculinity. For them, chest hair or facial hair might evoke an image of ruggedness or confidence. Touch is a factor; the texture of body hair may appeal to some escorts as part of their sensory experience during intimacy.

Some will be turned off by it

In Westernized contexts where grooming and personal care have become mainstream for men, a smoother, hairless body might be preferred as a sign of hygiene, athleticism, or contemporary grooming standards.

Therefore, some escorts will find smooth, hairless skin more appealing, associating it with cleanliness, a fit physique, or aesthetic beauty.

Not to mention that having no hair has been “fashionable” in pornography for a long time, which in the common consciousness certainly influences preferences, or at least, what seems to be considered a standard of preference.

My personal opinion about body hair

Trends go in and out of style, and that’s to be expected, but what bothers me is that a lot of people are misinformed and actually think that pubic hair is unhealthy or not hygienic. I don’t share this opinion. It’s there for a few reasons, but one of the most important ones is that it helps to decrease the friction of skin-on-skin, so that parts of us that rub together won’t chafe. This is why removing it completely isn’t necessarily healthy.

I choose to remove mine partially only and keep the rest very neatly. I like the way it looks! Why? Because I think that shaving completely on a regular basis damage that delicate skin and can cause tiny tears and cuts, and I want my delicate skin to be as immune as possible against infections.

There’s nothing wrong with hair. Some people even love it and find that having a lot of hair is very sexy! Indeed, many clients, especially Gentlemen, enjoy seeing hair on a woman although, most of them are completely hairless, which is now kind of standard in the adult industry.

Note also that younger generations of escorts, exposed to evolving grooming trends through media, tend to lean more toward preferences for less body hair due to the normalization of male grooming in advertising and popular culture. But older generations of escorts or those less influenced by modern grooming norms may lean toward more natural appearances, including body hair.
 

Meeting with an escort: should you shave?

Are you dating an Escort soon? You might prefer to play it safe: unless you enjoy shaving and it’s something you want to do, I would just trim it very neatly and clean it up properly.

Escorts are used to see bad shaved (chest, back, pubic hair, under arms) clients, and for many of them it is a huge turn off. If you choose to be a hairy man, make sure to take care of your body hair properly so it remains clean and does not smell. It is often difficult to smell the odor of your own beard or to smell the sweat from the hair around your genitals. This is why you need to be extra careful and hygienic when you decide to maintain body hair.

For an escort, the most important thing when she meets you is your hygiene, whether you have body hair or not. If your hygiene is impeccable, she will be willing to give you the most of what she has to offer.
 

Janet – The Velvet Rooms

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