Offering a present to an escort: What to pay attention to.

I remember one day, one of the models advertising on this website received a very peculiar present from a client: an apple and a tea bag. She took a picture of it and sent it to me. Upon receiving her message, I couldn't help but burst out laughing.

What kind of man can be lacking so much tact and class? This article is dedicated to all those men who don't know what to give to an escort. Here are a few tips to help you avoid making a faux pas.

What is a present?

A present is a subconscious message that we send to others while waiting for a subtly (or not) response to the circumstance.

Giving is above all an onanist act. We offer for personal pleasure. There is a little bit of self in the present we give. Above all, the gift speaks for itself. We offer what we would have liked to receive, we offer what we did not receive in our childhood, we offer what we think the other will like, we offer what the other will like for that he/she loves us back. It also shows what we are ready to do for the other: "If you knew how much it cost me". And this single sentence has the power to spoil the pleasure by bringing in the notion of sacrifice and guilt.

What present should I offer to an Escort?

The success of the present lies in the emotion that is felt by the one who receives it.

The majority of Independent escorts who manage their own website have a page on their site labeled “Wishlist”. There you will find a list of gifts they would appreciate receiving.

If you don't know yet the escort you're going to meet, don't buy a present she might not like (of course, out of politeness, she won't tell you her honest feeling about it), or something overpriced.

If this girl is one of your favorite escorts you can be more generous because a "relationship" between you two has already been established. If you like to give her gifts, don't always buy the same thing! For example, receiving flowers every now and then is a very pleasant feeling. Receiving them all the time, and above all, coming from the same person, can sometimes be confusing ...

Vary the present so that it remains «tasty» and really pleasing. Here is a list of little touches that always make a woman smile: a gift card from a cosmetic shop or her favorite store, a perfume, some lingerie, a piece of jewelry.

Even if offering gifts is not your "thing", I advise you not to arrive empty-handed when you go to see an Escort. If your appointment is for a minimum of one hour, it is advisable to come with a present. This gesture has a lot more impact than you may think.
It stands for consideration, respect and kindness. No girl can resist such a mark of tenderness and subconsciously, she is even more willing to make you have a good time. You therefore multiply your chances by two, that everything goes very well.

The kind of present I would love to receive

My preference goes towards a present that can be shared, those that create a moment of complicity, those that will be remembered, not because they sit on the fireplace, but because we have seen the pleasure and the joy in the gaze of the other. I like consumable gifts: Pastries, chocolates, a good bottle of wine, scented candles, luxury cosmetics, an invitation to a restaurant, a day in a Spa, an invitation to the theater… It's a nice way to prove to the other part that he/she is important for me, apart from all social conveniences.

A present to an escort : Should you?

Gentlemen, if you do not have the means or the inclination to give an escort a present, do not do it and if you do, do it with your heart. It is better not to offer anything, than to offer something degrading or hurtful in the eyes of the receiver. If the escort feels offended by your present, it could influence (to your disadvantage) the quality of service she is ready to provide. Remember: For the experience to be enjoyable, you and the girl must feel good and comfortable. Don’t be cheap, don't make fool of yourself with a ridiculous present or one that makes you look bad.

And if you really don't know what to offer, leave her tip. It is a great substitute for a present. Whether it is 20, 40, 50 or 100 CHF, I can assure you that this will make her very happy!

Janet - The Velvet Rooms

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