20 / 09 / 2020
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The pizzaiolo who is looking for a Girlfriend : my 3 golden rules not to fall in love with an Escort!

Shy, naive, introverted, insecure or simply inexperienced, some men look for love in the wrong place ... It is very difficult for them to approach a girl in the street, dating sites do not seem to work then after having suffered so much rejection, they turn to Escorts because they think that sex workers are more tolerant, have little requirements and are “easy” girls since they sleep with all men, whether they are handsome, ugly, rich, poor , smart or stupid. Influenced by the pejorative image conveyed by the media, these desperate men also think that these girls are selling their bodies for 'money and therefore have no men in their life because no one wants to have a "prostitute" as a girlfriend. So, they try to approach these girls “nobody wants” because they believe that their chances of being rejected are slim ...

Interesting…

Well, dear timids and introverts, I can assure you that the reality is quite different! Escorts who have chosen to do this job are not “poor girls” who have no other career options. In this industry we see girls who are more and more beautiful, sure of themselves, intelligent (many are graduates and have a higher level of education than the average of their clients), they often have a lot more money than their clients, speak multiple languages, are very sociable and open-minded, travel a lot and are extremely independent ... Nothing to do with the negative portrayal too often broadcasted in the media.

An Escort often has a lot more conversation and sex appeal than your wife / girlfriend. Because her profession has taught her to know men and to know how a man "tick", these women are ahead of all other women because they understand men universe and its codes. These girls are selling their time and not their body. They are the fantasy of many men and the more beautiful and educated they are, the more men of high society will want to spend time with them, spoil them ...

In fact, it is very easy to fall in love with an Escort ... and it happens a lot more often than you might think because the best of them are rare girls, with highly developed emotional intelligence and an excellent understanding of how a man "functions". They don't have to look for love… it comes to them regularly, naturally… they can choose...and they are pickier than you think!

So dear timids and introverts, here are my three golden rules to follow if you want to meet Escorts and at the same time protect yourself emotionally:

Don’t become a regular with 1 Escort only

The best is to see many sex workers. And never see a particular sex worker more than 3 to 5 times at most. Otherwise, you won't be able to tell the difference between reality and fantasy, and you might fall in love and suffer greatly.

Understand that it is a physical and psychological work

Being an Escort is not only physical but also has enormous physiological effects on these women. You need a different mindset to really understand them. They move in another world. They don't think like other women.

Accept that she won't stop working 

Related to the above, she won't stop working even though she loves you. It will take a considerable amount of time. Her whole life revolves around this activity, including friends and social life. Too many men expect that they stop this work. Few of them will quit for good. Some will manage to stop temporarily but will go back to it if necessary. The vast majority will never be able to stop...

The best is to accept her as she is and accept her job as an Escort. When she decides for herself, she will stop this work but it has to come from her, not from you.

I hope my article has been able to guide this pizza maker (see the WhatsApp exchange above received yesterday by one of our Models - sorry no English translation is available) and many other men who often seek love, in the wrong place…

Remember this : The role of a Escort is to make you fantasize in order to help you better stand /accept your own reality.

Janet for TheVelvetRooms

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