Do you need social media as an escort girl?

Many years ago, way before the time of social media, working as an Independent Escort was not as challenging as it is today. You placed a short ad in your local newspaper, and within a few hours, you were receiving hundreds of calls. Even when the sex industry moved into the internet, it was still pretty straight forwards as those sex portals were not so many as they are today. Basic pictures and a phone number were enough to have you worked very well.

Nowadays, Sex Workers spend countless hours on social media (Facebook, Instagram, X-Twitter and on Dating Apps like Tinder, OnlyFans, Snapchat), daily posting, hoping to drag attention and convert those followers into customers.

The more you are active on social media, the more clients want to know about you. They like your selfies, but it is not enough for them. They want to know you as a person and as many details as possible about your private life (Where do you live? Do you have a pet? What did you do on the weekend?). Slowly, slowly you almost feel obliged to share everything about your life, keep on being sexy, without stopping to create great contain on social media, that men want to read daily.

So much effort is expected from you on social media, before you have even received any cash! Is the effort worth it? Is posting furiously on social media and entertaining men for free will have you work more/better? Does it benefit you financially in any way? Well, not necessarily.

I have never been on social media but some of my Escort friends have been using social media a lot to promote their image and guess what? They confessed me that the use of social media had zero to little impact on their business. With or without social media, their income as an Escort was more or less the same.

Indeed, they all had a lot of followers around the world. From those followers who were near their town/city almost nobody was converting from follower to customer. A few of these ladies told me that during the periods they were not active on social media, they had exactly the same frequency of work comparing with the times they were posting daily. However, when it comes to touring girls, the extensive use of social media seems to result to a positive conversation rate.  

Social media is a great entertainment for all of us but for you, working as an Escort it has to be used as a business tools which benefits your business (helps you make more money). If it is not the case, forget it.

Remember also that when a man is used to getting something for free without having asked for it, without having paid for it, it is very difficult to convince him to pay for that same thing he always got for free. Ladies, do you understand what I am talking about? It’s like this guy texting you endlessly and keeping asking for pictures and selfies. You know he is a timewaster and will never book you. Why should you entertain him for free?  And if you ever send him the pictures he asked for, you are feeding his needs/expectations for free and you are also lowering yourself by losing value in his eyes. Yes Ladies, that’s how men tick!

Moreover, some men may be discouraged from meeting you because you are an open book on social media. You give them the impression that they have nothing more to discover about you and that there is no longer any part of the mystery that makes a date magical and/or interesting between an Escort and her client.

As an independent Escort, remember that engaging into social media, in most of cases, will have you create an expectation that will provide free entertainment, content and information about yourself before any money has changed hands.

Do you want to waste time and energy to conform to this expectation, hoping that it will pay off at some point (most of the time it does not)? Is it really what you are looking for as an Escort? Social media? Think about it twice, Ladies. And if you really what to have a unique presence on the internet, have your own website and take it to a level where it will convert potential clients into real clients. That’s again, another challenge...

Janet – The Velvet Rooms

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