02 / 10 / 2023
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Is this your first date with an escort? Consider these tips


While some people are used to dating escorts on a regular basis, for some, the escort industry is new territory. There are plenty of online platforms that will introduce you to some of the sexiest girls in your area, ready to fulfill all your dreams. Don't worry if you don't get what you might be looking for, as there are literally so many different types of women around that all your desires will be satisfied at some point. So, if you are on your first date with an escort, then here are some important tips to keep in mind.


Don't feel embarrassed

One of the most important things is not to feel that there is something wrong with you or your escort. Keep a positive mindset and enjoy the experience to the fullest. Essentially, you'll be having consensual, fun sex with another person who will do their best to make you feel great. The more comfortable you feel, the more fun you'll end up having. Respect for escorts is important. Respect them and they will respect you back, plus they will give you a great time.


Be yourself

Meeting new people and having fun with them is great because you can learn new things about yourself that way. It's important to be yourself in these situations, without pretending to have a different personality, as this would be downright stressful. No matter what your personality is like, you will surely be able to find an escort that suits you and fulfills all your fantasies. 


Be nice

It's also important to be nice to your escort, no matter what type of escort you choose. This will also make her feel good and provide excellent service. Try to be attentive, polite, speak directly and honestly and be aware of your escort's feelings during the encounter. Be polite from the moment you meet her, offering to take her coat or even order her a drink if you are at the hotel bar.

Ask her if she's free at the time you want to meet. It's not advisable to make her choose, especially since she have no idea what your schedule is. If she is free at the time you suggest, she will tell you, if not, she will suggest the nearest time she can join you.

If you ask the escort to visit you in your hotel room/home , make sure you give her your name, full home or hotel address, and a phone number. She needs to make sure these details are real, especially as there are many people who call just for fun and her time is precious (such as yours). Do not be alarmed. She just wants to make sure that she will be safe when she meets you. This is standard procedure and nothing to worry about. Respect her request and you will have a better experience.


Be punctual

Punctuality is very important for any escort (of course, exceptions apply), especially since they may have another appointment scheduled. If you don't arrive on time, communicate this to the escort. She will appreciate this and will do her best to make sure that the meeting will still take place. That is unless, as I said earlier, she has another appointment scheduled. This way, you can enjoy your time together and have sex with your escort-girl without thinking about anything else. Also, make sure you come to the date clean and decently dressed. This shows respect to the person you are about to meet, and your escort will surely appreciate this gesture. Think about paying in advance and make sure you have the money on hand. If you want to leave a tip, then remember that the money should be put in an envelope, and the envelope should be left discreetly in a place where your escort will see it and take it before you leave. Never arrive at an apartment with less money than what has been agreed! There is nothing more disrespectful than showing up at a meeting and trying to negotiate the agreed price. If you do this with an agency, I guarantee they will blacklist you and send your number around to other escorts and escort agencies.


How to proceed after the meeting?

Once you are done meeting with the escort and have enjoyed it, I recommend publishing your experience on a forum or in her escort profile. Give the escort a positive review and she will get more clients. Of course, it’s not mandatory, just a recommendation. It will also make her happier as it will be a written proof that you enjoyed her company. If her service wasn't as good as you expected it to be, don't be too harsh in your comments. Use decent words to express your disappointment.


It's not all about sex

Some people think that seeing a escort is all about sex... but that's only another part of the story. It can also mean talking together, encouraging each other, exchanging jokes, enjoying a drink together, having breakfast in bed, giving each other massages ... and the list goes on.With an escort you don't just meet for sex, you meet for an unforgettable experience. Many gentlemen meet  escorts for this very reason. They want to learn new sexual positions and techniques, to get to know themselves better, to know things about what women prefer in bed, and to gain more confidence in themselves. Essentially, there are numerous advantages to enlisting the services of a  escort, whether for simple companionship or something more.

If you have never tried visiting an escort before, you will find that the experience is probably different from what you thought it would be. And when you figure out how it really works, you'll look at it in a very different light. No need to get frustrated if you feel nervous before your first date with an escort. This happens to all clients. Instead, the escort will know how to approach you and what to do to help you completely relax and feel at ease. These girls are very experienced and know exactly how to treat a man from absolutely every point of view (of course, exceptions always apply). So, don't worry, just think about how exciting your time with your chosen escort will be, moreover, you will have a wonderful sexual experience from which you will learn many new things that will make your intimate life more fulfilling and satisfying.


Nobody plays the devil's advocate

Don't let time pass and take courage, make the right choice for you. Allow these unfulfilled fetishes and fantasies to happen that are otherwise embarrassing to reveal to conventional partners. However, escorts have heard and done it (almost) all, so fulfilling the strangest desires and fetishes is not taboo for her (simply double check what the girl does or does not as some are more open-minded than others).  But as a former Escort-Girl, I can say that in the world of escorts, no one will judge you.


Selena for TheVelvetRooms 


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