29 / 05 / 2019
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Tips for Ladies: How to keep your options/doors open for the future?

When you become a Swiss Independent Escort for the first time, you quickly realize the freedom this job offers: a flexible schedule, the possibility to travel very often, the opportunity to meet nice gentlemen (with a certain social status, a great career and financially comfortable) and to earn a lot of money. So much sometimes that many young women lose their minds! Being an Independent Escort means living an extraordinary life, being in a universe that you could never have approached by having a more traditional life.

But at the top of their careers, many of these Girls forget that one day they will be less popular, work less, face personal difficulties/reasons that will no longer allow them to continue this work...  Leaving this industry is not that simple and is not always planned in advance. On the contrary, it often happens suddenly and unpredictably.

So how do you ensure that you can leave this industry safely and discreetly, whenever you want to? How can you keep the doors/options open to a come back to the "traditional" world after being an Escort Girl? Whether you are a newbie Escort or a lady with many years of experience, these few tips will certainly be very useful!

 

Choose to remain anonym

In this industry, many girls choose to show their face. Indeed, this decision can increase your bookings and attract great clients you may have otherwise missed out on. Showing your face is a personal decision that will be different for everyone. It is not necessary a „bad decision“ if you are ready to endorse all the consequences related to that irreversible choice.

But being an Escort has still a huge stigma attached to it. I know, it is irrational and unfair but that’s the way it is and being 100% open about what you do can limit your future carrer opportunities and makes it difficult both professionally and socially to leave the industry.

Janet’s tip: Blur at least a part of your face (eyes and nose). Surfing online may be your favorite hobby but the internet xould also be your worst enemy as nowadays it has become extremely difficult to delete anything published on Google…

 

Don’t share your real identity with anyone

A client has seen you more than 10 times and you start feeling very comfortable around him? That’s not a reason to share your real identity with him. Take some distance when it comes to your private life and keep for yourself your real name, date of birth and other relevant details about your identity.

Janet’s tip: Sometimes, getting too close to a client may have you actually loose him as a client… All experienced ladies know exactly what I am talking about… Try to remain professional and create amazing experiences for your clients without exposing who st he girl behind the „professional girlfriend“ they know.

 

Forget about Facebook!

Don’t underestimate the number of girls who have been caught up being an Escort because of Facebook. Many girls have 2 Facebook accounts… yes, but using both of them form the same devices and with the same IP address does not make you less anonym… Have you thought about that? I bet you haven’t …

Janet’s tip:Do you want to avoid problems? Stay away from Facebook. It takes too much to touch this while being an Escort.

 

Stay professionally active

Don’t get me wrong : there is nothing bad about being a full-time escort. But as one never knows what the future will bring, it is important to make arrangements in advance. How can you expect reentering the workforce with that big gap in your resume? Of course, it will turn off potential employers… As an Escort, it is better to stay active and have an alternate profession so you have something to show on your CV, the day you will leave the industry.

Janet’s tip: Take a part-time job in your field or become a freelancer (even if it is only for a few hours a week and even  if it does not pay well) doing something you really like in order not to face major barriers when you will decide to retire from your Escort life.

 

Don’t give up education !

Being an independent Escort can be wonderful as it usually provides you with opportunities you otherwise would never have had. Because you can choose when, where and how you would like to work, it allows you also to purse an education and that’s great!

Learning a new language, going back to University or finishing that college education you dropped a few years ago can only be a good decision for the future!

And if you already had a degree when you became an Escort, continuing education can also be a good thing. Educating yourself will help you to prevent problematic CV gaps, enlarge your skillset and makes you more attractive to future organisations. Being an educated woman makes you also a more interesting Escort, especially for longer appointments.

Janet’s tip:Investing in yourself is ALWAYS a good choice !!! Don’t only feed your body (with botox and plastic surery) but your brain too (with books and diverse forms of education).

 

Ladies, we have the power to make this field a better industry for all of us. By choosing to be proactive, you can protect yourself from being obliged to reveal to the whole World what you really do instead of being publicly open about it because you decided to.

 

Janet for TheVelvetRooms

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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