Girls in the sex industry: How to keep your options/doors open for the future?

When you become an Independent Escort for the first time, you quickly realize the freedom this job in the sex industry offers: a flexible schedule, the possibility to travel very often, the opportunity to meet nice gentlemen (with a certain social status, a great career and financially comfortable) and to earn a lot of money. Sometimes, young women in the sex industry will lose their minds! Being an Independent Escort can mean living an extraordinary life, being in a universe that you could never have approached by having a more conventional life.

But at the top of their career in the sex industry, many of these Girls forget that one day they will be less popular, work less, face personal difficulties/reasons that will no longer allow them to continue this work...  Leaving the sex industry is not that simple, especially when it hasn’t been planned well in advance. Indeed, it often happens suddenly and unpredictably.

So how do you ensure that you can leave the sex industry safely and discreetly, whenever you want to? How can you keep doors/options open to a come back to the "traditional" world after being an Escort Girl for many months/years? Whether you are a newbie Escort or a lady with many years of experience in the sex industry, these few tips will certainly be very useful to you!
 

Choose to remain anonymous

In the sex industry, many girls choose to show their face. On one hand, this decision can increase your bookings and attract great clients you may have otherwise missed out on. On the other hand, this decision has to be carefully considered. Showing your face is a personal decision that will be different for everyone. It is not necessary a „bad decision“ if you are ready to endorse all the consequences related to that irreversible choice.

But being an Escort has still a huge stigma attached to it. I know, it is irrational and unfair but that’s the way it is and being 100% open about your activity in the sex industry can limit your future career opportunities and makes it difficult both professionally and socially to leave the industry.

Useful tip: Blur at least a part of your face (eyes and nose). Surfing online may be your favorite hobby, but the internet could also be your worst enemy as nowadays it has become extremely difficult to delete anything published on the internet…


Don’t share your real identity with anyone

A client has seen you more than ten times and you start feeling very comfortable around him? That’s not a reason to share your real identity with him. Take some distance when it comes to your private life and keep for yourself your real name, date of birth and other relevant details about your identity.

Useful tip: Sometimes, getting too close to a client may have you actually loose him as a client… All experienced ladies know exactly what I am talking about… Try to remain professional in the sex industry, while creating amazing experiences for your clients without exposing who is the girl behind the „professional girlfriend experience“ is extremely important.


Forget about Facebook!

Don’t underestimate the number of girls who have been caught up being an Escort because of Facebook and other social media... Many girls have 2 Facebook accounts… yes but using both from the same devices and with the same IP address does not make you less anonym… quite the contrary. It is all what it takes to be unmasked. Have you thought about that? I bet you haven’t …

Useful tip: Do you want to avoid problems? Stay away from Facebook and Instagram. It takes too much to touch this while being active in the sex industry.

 
Stay professionally active

Don’t get me wrong: There is nothing bad about being a full-time escort. But as one never knows what the future will bring, it is important to make arrangements well in advance. How can you expect reentering the workforce with that big gap in your resume? Let’s face it: it will turn off potential employers. As an Escort, it is better to stay active and have an additional profession so you have something to show on your CV, the day you will leave the sex industry.

Useful tip: Take a part-time job in your field or become a freelancer in another field (even if it is only for a few hours a week and even if it does not pay well) doing something you really like in order not to face major barriers when you will decide to retire from the sex industry.


Don’t give up education !

Being an independent Escort can be wonderful as it usually provides you with opportunities you otherwise would never have had. Because you can choose when, where and how you would like to work, it allows you also to purse an education and that’s great!

Learning a new language, going back to University or finishing that college education you dropped a few years ago can only be a good decision for the future!

And if you already had a degree when you became an Escort, continuing education can also be a good thing, especially if you're considering a career change. Educating yourself will help you to prevent problematic CV gaps, enlarge your skillset and makes you more attractive to future organizations. Being an educated woman makes you also a more interesting Escort, especially for gentlemen looking for longer appointments with an escort.

Useful tip: Investing in yourself is ALWAYS a good choice! Don’t only feed your body (with Botox and plastic surgery) but your brain too (with books and diverse forms of education).
 

What can be learnt from these tips?

Ladies, we have the power to make of the sex industry a better place for all of us (clients, escorts and third parties). By choosing to be proactive, you can protect yourself from being obliged to reveal to the whole World your activity in the sex industry, instead of being publicly open about it because you decided to. See it as a unique way to take control over your life!  

Janet – The Velvet Rooms

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