Pussy Sliding : What is it exactly?

Pussy Slide or should I say Pussy Sliding? Both terminologies seem to be part of the escort jargon. Whether you are an Escort or a Hobbyist*, you have certainly heard of this term before. If not, I will try to give you a definition as precise and informative as possible about this practice which is somehow a bit of a taboo (and we will find out why).

Pussy slide/Pussy Sliding : Definition 

"Pussy Slide" is an English term, made of two words that are easy to break down:

Pussy  = in the English slang it refers to woman’s genitals

Slide = in the English language it is a synonym of „ to slipping , moving smoothly/down“.

Combining both words gives this term a very specific definition in the adult industry context which is the following :

Pussy sliding happens when the Escort gets on top of her client on his back or when both of them are on the side (The lovers are lying on their side. The woman is in a spoon position and the man embraces her tenderly. It is also called, position 99 in the Kamasutra), puts the penis between her vaginal lips and slides her pussy against his erect penis.

The woman will usually press herself closely against her partner so that his penis is sandwiched between their bodies. It is a good feeling for both partners, especially for the man as the practice of Pussy Sliding increases the number of nerves being stimulated. It is a great pleasure for the man who, without penetration can easily ejaculate (between the woman’s legs) during a Pussy Slide practice...

Pussy Sliding is for the man, probably the closest thing to sex without coming into the vagina.

P2P : the other term used by sex workers

Note that usually, the term „Pussy Slide“ is mainly used by men or in porno movies. In the sex industry, sex workers rarely used that term, this is why if you tell them about „Pussy Sliding“, some, especially if they don’t speak English well, will not necessarily understand what you are talking about.

Escort Girls like to use the word „Privates to Privates (P2P)“ Massage instead of „Pussy Slide“. Of course, the definition remains the same.

„The Privates to Privates“ describes a sensual massage where the Escort rubs her naked genital region against her male partner's genitals. „A Privates to Privates“ massage aims to bring the man to ejaculation, without penetration. Sex workers who offer this service typically use the acronym P2P in their profile to indicate this.

Pussy Slide : a taboo? 

Since the two genitals of the man and the woman are in direct contact with each other, this practice is risky, even if there is no penetration. Indeed, both partners should be careful to make sure that nothing „slips“ inside the hole… Pussy Sliding should be practiced with an escort who has experience in providing such a service.

While penetration does not occur during a „Privates to Privates Massage“, accidents can happen. For this reason, some Escort girls will choose not to offer this practice that they will consider too risky or will offer you to use a condom while getting into a Pussy Sliding experience ( which of course should be used unless both participants know each other well (regular clients for example) and are aware of their sexual health status).

Real "P2P/Pussy Slide Massages" are usually being done while using a gel and/or oil but without the use of a condom. Using one, of course, makes this very sensual massage lose all its authenticity.

P2P Massage is the alternative that comes closest to the sensation of vaginal penetration, without there being any ejaculation in the woman's vagina. That’s why most men love Pussy Slide.

However, don't overestimate the sexual culture of the average escort! Indeed, the vast majority will look surprised when you mention Pussy Sliding, because they've never heard of it. Also note that experienced Escorts in Switzerland may be comfortable offering you a „Pussy Sliding/P2P Massage“ but many of them will certainly choose not to provide this kind of service (because they are unsure about it, because they have never done it before, because they do not know you well enough…). A decision that of course must be respected by you, dear Gentlemen!


Janet – The Velvet Rooms 

*Hobbyist : A man who visits Escorts regularly

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