Sexual Market Value, Sexual Marketplace and Why men are turning to Escorts

What is Sexual Market Value?

It is what determine the Sexual marketplace. The Sexual Market Value (SMV) defines your attractiveness and desirability in the dating market. It is calculated by combining various elements such as: your physical attractiveness, health, your fertility (mainly for women), your social status, your resources/wealth (mainly for men), your education, your career success, your age, your DNA…

Although the sexual market value rating varies greatly with personal preferences and contextual factors and does change over time with age and personal development, a lot of research has been made on the topic over the years and it offer a genuine and reliable understanding about human attraction. 

The 20% on the top SMV will get the 80% of choice

For those who read up on male discussion boards, sexual market value is no longer a foreign concept. Essentially, SMV is what a person is worth to the other sex. Women’s SMV tend to peak in their twenties when their beauty and fertility are at their highest; men peak later because status and wealth are more important and take a few more years to acquire. This is why an age disparity between the partners in a couple is not uncommon.

It is easily observable that the Pareto principle (80/20 rule) applies to the sexual marketplace; that is to say the top 20% of men will get 80% of the women out there. The rule does not really apply the other way around because men make most of the sexual advances. Although the trend seems to be reversing (pushed by the woke movement), so far, the sexual market value shows us that fact is still what it is: A man proposes, a woman disposes…

As a result of militant feminism, things are just getting worse. In most Western democracies, the courts are tilted towards protecting the rights of women at the expense of men. Divorce has become a means of enrichment (for women) and men almost never get the kids; this phenomenon is not unusual either in Switzerland.

In some countries like France for instance, at the time I am writing this article, paternity tests can only be court-ordered thus making it easy for women to conceive outside their couple and have men raise someone else’s kids.

According to the sexual market value rating, the sexual marketplace tells us that 80% of the men are virtually sexless with few prospects. They have to accept the sexual and emotional hand-me-downs (often with kids in tow) of the top 20%. Damaged goods that can clean them out and take their kids away. Not a very interesting prospect…

Visiting Escorts: an alternative given by the sexual marketplace

Given the situation described above, more and more men are simply tuning out and turning their backs on long-term relationship with women altogether.

The sexual marketplace just drives many men to pay for sex. They have their quiet little life, circle of friends, a career and sex with escorts. They do not even bother with women anymore. They flee the mind games, the out of control, ever increasing demands, of frankly, low quality women.

Let’s be honest for a minute: Most marriages are sexless affairs. Why embark on one, with all the risks involved, when over your lifespan, you will get more sex for less money, all things considered, by hooking up with a lot of different escorts? The sex will probably be wilder and almost assuredly much better!

Over the last few decades the number of escorts in Switzerland has steadily gone up. Agencies multiply as demand grows and becoming an independent escort (whatever the reasons behind this choice) is in the mind of many women who have not made that leap yet. It is not rare to know someone who’s an escort or has been in the past (some decided to keep it secret back then but had opened it about it later on); some for just a small period in their life, others made a career of it.

What is the result of the current sexual marketplace?

The result of the sexual market value is eloquent: Fewer and fewer couples form, less and less kids are born and both sexes tragically miss out on an institution that brought happiness to generation after generation in the past: marriage.

So as men and women are driven apart, no longer opting to be husband and wife, they meet again as escort and client…

It is not all bad. For people in the sex trade, business is good, and the growing prevalence of their industry slowly is starting to bring them the respect they deserve.


Janet – The Velvet Rooms

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