11 / 01 / 2026
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What are the Kamasutra’s positions most liked by escorts?

 

Some men who visit escorts—whether they're novices or not—tend to want to make absolutely sure that the woman is also enjoying herself during this intimate moment with them; whereas what the woman truly enjoys is actually giving them pleasure. Indeed, for many independent escorts, their own pleasure comes second to yours, gentlemen. They sell you their charms primarily for your pleasure! But for those who have read too much of the Kamasutra and are preoccupied with the idea of ​​giving this escort pleasure, here's a short article that, without being too explicit, guides you through the types of Kamasutra positions that escorts tend to enjoy.

 

What does the Kamasutra say about women’s pleasure?

The Kamasutra – known as being an ancient guide to love, intimacy, and pleasure that treats sex as part of a broader, respectful, and mutually satisfying relationship — does not claim that all women like the same things. In fact, one of its core themes is that desire varies by individual, mood, relationship, and physical compatibility.

But what it does do is describe categories of positions and note why certain ones tend to be pleasurable or less pleasurable, based on comfort, control, stimulation, and emotional connection.

 

What are the Kamasutra positions women often enjoy?

By browsing through this ever-relevant erotic manual, one learns that sex position that are particularly pleasurable to women are the following:

 

Woman-on-top positions

Escorts (but women in general) particularly like these types of positions because they are more in control of the rhythm, depth, and energy of the sexual act going on. It is also easier for them to adjust their movement for comfort and pleasure. When women are on the top, not only it is less physical strain, but it also encourages their active participation during the intercourse. The best escorts know that pleasure increases when both partners are active, not when one is passive.

 

Face-to-face positions

All Kamasutra positions that involve a face-to-face contact appeal to men, who are naturally more visual than women, but you should know that they also appeal to some women, at least to escorts. Being able to observe how her client reacts during these moments of pleasure is an indicator for the escort to know if her way of moving, speaking, and performing is in line with her client's expectations. The face-to-face positions will be favored by the escort and increase the eye contact and emotional intimacy, ease the synchronization of her movement and breath and enhance affection, kissing, and communication. An independent escort specializing in providing a GFE knows how to treat emotional closeness as integral to the sexual satisfaction of her client, not separate from it.

 

Side-by-side positions

Most escorts are comfortable with the Kamasutra side-by-side positions mainly because they are gentle on the body and allow prolonged intimacy without fatigue. They are favored during longer encounters, especially when the sex time has been very demanding or when one partner is tired or recovering.

 

Positions allowing indirect clitoral stimulation

In case you did not know about it, note that about 70–80% of women do not orgasm from penetration alone. In fact, clitoral stimulation is the most reliable predictor of a woman’s orgasm. But again, not all men know how to handle it... let's save that topic for a future article. The key takeaway for me is that many women derive more pleasure from external stimulation than from penetration alone. In other words, Kamasutra positions that naturally create friction or allow manual involvement are implicitly valued by most women.

 

Are there sex positions to be avoided with an escort?

Actually, the answer to this question isn't straightforward, as it depends on the type of experience the escort specializes in and what the client is looking for. If you're meeting a submissive escort, a dominant one, or one who exclusively offers vanilla sex, the answer will obviously be different. So, I'll focus on the perspective of an escort offering a Girlfriend Experience (GFE) service, as it remains the most requested service by clients of sex workers. But bear in mind that these suggestions are very much context dependent.

 

Kamasutra positions that limit movement or agency

Unless the escort love to be strongly dominated or that it's one of your fantasies that you want to live out with an escort (and she's up for it), be aware that most escorts dislike sex position that prevent them from adjusting angle, speed, or pressure during the intercourse. Incorrect angle or depth? Pressure on her joints or abdomen? If an escort feels passive or uncomfortable, it will be hard for her to hide it and pretend that everything is OK. Even if that position does not give her real pleasure, it should not be painful or make her uncomfortable.

 

Physically demanding or acrobatic positions

To all porn movie lovers, be aware that these positions that make you fantasize are often surreal, often more visually impressive than sensually effective. Indeed, they require strength or flexibility without adding any pleasure to the moment. They can cause discomfort, strain, or distraction. An escort will prefer you avoiding Kamasutra performing positions that you do merely to showcase your skill rather than to enhance your pleasure and/or the one of your partner.

 

Best sex positions with an escort:  in a nutshell

In this article, we’ve learned that there aren’t really any best sex positions while enjoying the company of an escort, although women tend to enjoy positions that allow control, adaptability, and intimacy, while disfavoring those that limit agency, cause discomfort, or prioritize spectacle over sensation. But beyond that, there is another message conveyed through these lines.

Gentlemen, consider your encounter with an escort as a moment of relaxation. She doesn't expect you to perform anything, much less extravagant Kamasutra positions. The independent escort is there to help you unwind, to provide some of what you lack in your daily life, to make you feel desired, without ever judging you. By setting aside the idea of ​​wanting to showcase what you can do (and, in doing so, prove to yourself what you are sexually capable of), you allow yourself to fully experience certain sensations that lie dormant within you and are just waiting to be awakened…

 

Janet – The Velvet Rooms

 

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