17 / 06 / 2020
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How to share your fantasies with an Escort?

Everyone fantasizes, or almost. And there is no shame in that. But where does this erotic imagination come from? Should we sometimes worry about it or, on the contrary, do everything possible to achieve it? If your partner doesn't seem interested, how can you express your fantasies with an Escort girl ?

What is a fantasy?

What is a fantasy? A conscious dream, a kind of little film produced by the brain, which has the power to trigger a strong erotic excitement. The fantasy is a wonderful erogenous zone.

Rare people do not have them, either because reality offers them a sufficient source of excitement - and that's good - or because they repressed them, frightened by their content.

We sometimes realize that the scene chosen is linked to a childhood memory that had caused us intense emotion.

For example, dreaming to be in the arms of another has nothing to do with infidelity!

But you can keep your secret garden, without feeling guilty about it. The imagination allows you to “live” new sexual experiences without endangering your relationship. A couple who do not use fantasies will be much more tempted to find surprise in extramarital affairs.

A fantasy: should it come true?

The peculiarity of the fantasy is that there is no acting out. Besides, when you eventually experience it, you are often disappointed.

By wanting to make a fantasy come true, you run the risk of removing all its attractiveness afterwards and therefore depriving yourself of any pleasure! Without counting all those for whom it is not even possible, because we know that, in reality, we would not stand these practices or because they involve other people. If there are no perverse thoughts, certain acts remain so. But what if these fantasies could still be experienced with a sexually liberated partner or with an Escort for example?

How to fulfill your fantasies with an Escort?

Sharing our fantasies is often a taboo subject. The vast majority of couples do not confide their fantasies for fear of judgment, rejection, shame. Some people will never reveal their fantasies to anyone. But did you know that you can make your fantasies come true by living them with someone who will never judge you? Why not contacting an Escort girl? A neutral person who, in exchnge f a donation, will help you satisfy your desires ... even the craziest?

Escort girls are there to satisfy you sexually. They will help you relax, relieve yourself, balance your life by reducing your stress linked to a lack of regularity in your sexual relations.
These “girls of joy” can also go very far in the realization of your fantasies but according to your way of expressing yourself, of behaving, the answer may be a negative one. Below, 3 tips to talk about your fantasies to an Escort and maximize the chances that she accepts to help you realize them:

* Make sure you've met her at least 3 or 4 times before sharing your fantasies with her. Despite appearances, an Escort is not ready to do everything for money. If she doesn't know you at all and your fantasy seems bizzare to her, you will receive a negative answer or even no answer at all. Go slowly and meet her at least 3 times before talking to her about it. The more confidence she will have in you, the easier it will be to approach her on subjects that are a little delicate (even taboo) without being embarrassed, on the contrary.

* Let her know of your fantasy in writing, specifying that it is only a fantasy and that whatever her decision, you will accept it, without being disappointed. The advantage of the text is that she has time to read it, reread it, to imagine being part of it. This time of reflection which is being given to her will play in your favor and will influence her final response to transform it into a "Yes" if her first reaction would have been negative.

* Unless your fantasy takes place under the table of a restaurant or in your car, choose to realize it at her Incall place and not during an Outcall. Meaning in the Escort's apartment, where she receives you. Why? Because she is in her comfort zone, in a place she knows, in which she feels reassured and safe. It will therefore be easier for her to accept to please you and realize your fantasy (which may not be hers) with a lot of commitment and interest.

Conclusion...

Having to go to a client she has never seen to fulfill a fantasy of which she knows nothing about, at an unknown place are elements that will work against you. Sex workers work a lot following their "feeling". The more comfortable they feel in your company, the more they will be willing to satisfy you.

Fantasies are almost as important as the sexual act itself: they arouse excitement (lubrication) and desire, prepare for action and allow stimulation, both imaginary and physical. They also make it easier and faster to reach orgasm in many cases. They are so connected to the body that some people reach orgasm just by fantasizing! Don't be ashamed of your fantasies!

Janet for TheVelvetRooms 

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