Here are the Whatsapp messages escorts don’t like to receive

In the West, Whatsapp has now become one of the favorite communication tools between escorts and clients, more popular than other apps such as telegram, Viber or even Signal.  

This is nothing new: we all know that independent Escort Girls of a certain level love to meet guests of the same caliber to spend great time with. Those clients who are usually Gentlemen would first get in touch with their favorite companion via a phone call or a well written email.

In North America, for example, upscale companions will likely be first contacted by email (if she is using one) but in Europe, a phone call will be preferred. But sending a Whatsapp message is now common occurrence among escort clients who tend to find this channel of communication convenient.

As long as these Whatsapp messages are not unwelcome, rude or clumsy, most escorts would love receiving them and will also take the time to answer back.

If you are a shy man, if you have never used the services of an Escort before or if for some reasons, calling is really impossible for you, then make sure not to have your phone number blacklisted because of an inappropriate text Whatsapp message... Learn about the eight text messages you should not send to an Escort:

Whatsapp messages at improper times

Inappropriate hours to text an Escort are before 7am and after 11pm. Whatsapp texts outside those suitable hours could be a turn off for the majority of them and could be perceived as creepy, disrespectful or desperate, except if the call-girl explicitly mentions in her ad being also available during the night.

A Whatsapp text to the wrong Escort

Please, make sure to remember her name before texting her. If her name is Carla, don't call her Claudia. It is a lack of tact. This has happened to many Escorts I personally know and from the moment they read such Whatsapp messages, they are quite refractory in the idea of answering ...

A Whatsapp asking for additional pictures or nude selfies

It may be fun and exciting for you but for an escort who has her own website or spent hours writing a beautiful profile and adding several pictures to it, it is completely disrespectful. You can really turn her off just by asking. Why should she send these kinds of pictures free of charge to a stranger who may not even book her afterwards? If she plays along, it shows her lack of healthy boundaries and the low-level escort she is. Show her you have healthy boundaries by not asking her any additional pictures.

Whatsapp messages which do not even say "hello"

Honestly, would you answer a Whatsapp message to someone who does not even greet you? If you go to the bank, to the grocery or to the post office and the person at the counter doesn't look at you or ignore you although you are standing in front of her, how would you feel?

Well, the same applies when contacting an Escort : start your Whatsapp message by being polite and saying "Hello", "How are you?"... Those kinds of nice and friendly words, we all like to hear/read them when first interacting with somebody. If you can't be polite at first, don't expect an answer to your message.

Whatsapp texts that just says "Hey" or "Hi"

To all men out there: initiate a full thought! Texting an escort just to say "hey" or "hi" makes her have to interpret what you mean and most of the time, she will not even bother trying!

Whatsapp messages with pictures of your dick

Nasty Whatsapp/text messages showing your dick getting hard? Let me tell you the true: No woman like that (except if this dick is her boyfriend/husband's).  This type of attitude shows your low standard and your stupidity. And it doesn't matter if she is an Escort or not. Women don't care about the dick of an unknown man. It’s offensive.

Some men send pictures of their penis without asking, without any explanation context. Typically, sending such a picture is one of the first communications the Escort will receive from these men and of course, they will go straight into their blacklist! Don’t expect to ever meet that girl as she won’t make it happen.

It is most likely that this behavior represents an aspect of men's misperception of female sexual interest. Some men love the idea of receiving such Whatsapp pictures from strangers and they assume women do too. They assume wrong, obviously...

Whatsapp texts that are making her waste time

Remember: An Escort's time is as precious as yours. She is getting paid for her presence and her company and has no time to entertain you for free via Whatsapp messages. Which means that, messages such as " What are you wearing right now?" or "Can we do a video call?" are an absolute NO-GO. It sounds juvenile or perverse. Call on a Phone-Sex operator if you are horny and need to relief yourself before being able to sleep or between two business conferences but please, leave this Escort alone. She has no time for such silly games. For her, you are just a timewaster, nothing more, nothing less.

Whatsapp messages that require a long response

Note the following please: any information that will require more than one or at the most, two, text fields to convey belongs in an email or in an actual phone conversation. Whatsapp text messages are meant to express short ideas. If your text spills over into several parts, for her it will be a tedious, rather impersonal reading, and it may even be likely that you won't get an answer...

Why don't you just give her a call?


Janet – The Velvet Rooms

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