28 / 11 / 2018
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Pictures of your schlong? No, thank you!

 

The act of some men sending unsolicited pictures of their schlong, often referred to as "dick pics," to women (including escort girls) they do not know is a is a phenomenon that happens much more often than you might think.  

The anonymity provided by online platforms can embolden some men to act in ways they wouldn’t in face-to-face interactions. Indeed, without immediate consequences, they tend to feel freer to engage in inappropriate behavior.

While motivations can differ from man to man, here are some common explanations of an attitude which is unanimously rejected by the women.

 

Misinterpretation of women’ desire

In your naivety, you would obviously like to see a picture of them naked, so why wouldn’t they want to see your schlong at its best?

Men, why do you think that a girl, (including sex workers) would want to see a picture of your erect schlong suddenly appearing on her WhatsApp when you (on top of that) even never met her? At this specific moment when she’s receiving that horrible picture of your schlong, any other picture will be sexier than sending a stranger a picture of your erect schlong.

You surely mistakenly believe that women will find such images sexually appealing or arousing, projecting your own preferences or desires onto her.

But in spite of common thinking that suggests that women are as visually stimulated as men, it is actually a huge misconception. Women do not get as excited as men looking at a schlong or watching a porno film for instance…

 

Seeking validation

Are you trying to show what you “have to offer”, assuming that Escort Girls will be impressed (they are usually not) by your schlong?

A man with low self-esteem will need to boost his ego from time to time. Whether he has a large or small penis, sending images of his schlong can be an attempt to gain validation or affirmation about his physical appearance. Receiving a positive response from the woman to whom he has sent a photo of his schlong may reinforce his sense of self-worth or masculinity.

 

An exhibitionist who seeks thrill of expose?

Are you an exhibitionist? Some men derive excitement or pleasure from exposing themselves to strangers, often as a form of low-level exhibitionism. The act itself, rather than the girl’s reaction, usually provide the desired thrill. That's why, some of them, no matter how the girl who receives this unwanted photo reacts, the exhibitionist will continue to send her pictures of his schlong.

On the other hand, some men are only interested in a girl's reaction to a photo of her schlong. Their ultimate goal is to elicit any reaction, whether positive or negative, as a form of validation or attention-seeking behavior. Even outrage or disgust may be seen as a response that fulfills their need for recognition.

 

Are you looking for assertion of dominance?

Sending unsolicited pictures can be a way for certain men, of asserting control or dominance over the woman, often as an inappropriate or aggressive display of power.

This behavior is rooted in entitlement, lack of empathy and disregard for the woman's feelings.

Only with consent schlong pictures can be fun and horny. If you send them without permission, it simply means that you are not great with boundaries. If you can’t respect a woman, your phone number will simply land in her blacklist…forever!

 

Miscommunication of intentions

Are you trying to get talking dirty because you are bored or shy? A certain category of men just can’t communicate their fantasy. Many of them have to deal with poor social skills. They have limited experience in social interactions and do use explicit images as a way to communicate interest or initiate conversation, albeit inappropriately. They often lack understanding of more socially acceptable ways to approach someone.

 

Psychological issues

In some cases, sending unsolicited explicit images of their schlong or of any part of their genitals may be linked to compulsive sexual behavior or other underlying psychological problems. Such individuals may struggle with impulse control or have unresolved personal issues.

 

Why should a man never send a picture of your schlong to a woman?

While men ‘motivations for sending unsolicited pictures of their schlong vary, the behavior is almost universally considered inappropriate and disrespectful.

Unsolicited explicit images often leave women (whether she's your friend, girlfriend, mistress, wife or an escort girl) feeling violated, harassed, disrespected, objectified, uncomfortable or unsafe.

It often stems from a combination of entitlement, lack of empathy, or misperceptions about what women find appealing.

What’s the legitimate reaction of a woman who receives a photo of your schlong?  She will auto-delete any message coming from that sender...

So, a word to the wise…!

 

Janet – The Velvet Rooms
 
 

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