Escort Girls: Should you answer an unknown number?

Ladies, I am sure you have already been harassed with continuous phone calls from a withheld/unknown number, am I wrong? How to react in this case? Should you answer the phone, or should you let it ring?

They have heard it hundred times but some still do as they please and then only have their eyes to cry on. Ladies who have been in this industry for years know it well: unknown numbers should be avoided. As much as this seems like a super-cool and funny activity for those on the other side of the line, it is definitely not a fun ride from you point of view (the person who is being annoyed by these private calls).

In the sex business, especially in the Escort industry, unknown numbers are very common, but they should not be considered as normal. Indeed, nine times out of ten, those guys have no intention to secure a booking and are simply wasting your time by taking some pleasure from making an appointment and not showing up, hearing your voice while wanking or simply because they want to sex-chat a bit.

For those who know it but who always tend to answer, especially when the day has been bad, here is a small reminder of the reasons why you should never answer an unknown number:

Suspicious attitude

If someone contacts you and feels the need to hide their number, they can't inspire confidence. He is hiding something or has bad intentions towards you. The contact is not egalitarian because he knows your number (maybe even your face if you work with your face uncovered), you are even ready to give him your address and all that, without even knowing if he will show up or not. If he doesn't come, you don't even have the possibility to blacklist his phone number, but he already knows your address ... Why putting yourself in unnecessary danger?

No possibility of retaliation if things go wrong

Even though nothing bad has happened to you yet, many girls working as Escorts have been assaulted, threatened, robbed and even raped. It doesn't just happen to others and even the most careful girls can be trapped. If something similar happens to you and you don't even have a phone number that would allow the police to locate the suspect, you will only have your eyes to cry on ...

Let me also give you another piece of advice. If you work in Switzerland, I strongly advise you to answer only numbers starting with +41. If you work near a country bordering Switzerland, you can also answer numbers starting with +39 (Italy), +43 (Austria), +49 (Germany), +33 (France), +423 (Liechtenstein) but only if your place of work in Switzerland is at the border of one of these countries. If not, do not answer these numbers. Answer only numbers beginning with +41. Calls from tourists wishing to meet you for an Outcall must be confirmed from their hotel room number, proving you that they are actually in Switzerland.

95% of these calls are Timewasters

If you don't already know, note that almost everyone who calls from an unknown number is timewasters. Men who have little respect for you and your profession. These men often have no intention of securing a date but just want to hear your voice and ask you questions, to satisfy their fantasies of the moment. They are often arrogant, vulgar or aggressive on the phone because they know that nothing can happen to them, because they call from an unknown number. He's also the kind of guy who won't hesitate to hang up on you. This anonymous number can also be a former client that you no longer want to see or who is already in your blacklist and who tries to call you from an unknown number because when you see his number, you no longer answer. Some of them can be very aggressive and are able to call you 20 times in a row until you pick up the hook ...
Why should you answer an intrusion into your privacy when you don't even know who it is?

Excuses men will give you to justify their unknown number

Some men will tell you that they want to keep their number private or that they are calling from their work phone and that is why the number must remain anonymous ... Their apologies are theirs. It is not your problem. All they have to do is get a phone exclusively dedicated to this kind of activity. Make no exceptions and stick to it, even when times are tough financially.

If you pick up a call from an unknown number and ask him why he is hiding his number, here are the kind of answers you may have :

* „I am calling from my business number : therefore, I can’t show my number.“

Well, why is he calling from his business number at the first place? What he is doing in private should remain private. A client should never use his corporate number/devices to deal with private matters. Too many of them have been busted that way. He should separate the two „worlds“ and get himself another phone (preferably a very basic one, no smartphone), even if he ends up with a total of three phones. The phone being used for his „monkey business“  should be placed in a secured cupboard of his office or his car and turned on only when necessary.

* „I am calling from my business number : private calls are automatically settled by my company.“

Most of the time, this excuse is a bullshit. The call is hidden because he programmed it on his phone to be this way. That’s it.

* „I do not want to be called back or disturbed later on. “

I understand that some Escorts have no manners and no respect for their client’s privacy. Those Gentlemen have had bad experiences in the past, sometimes it even ruined their marriage and do not want to take any risks anymore. Alright, that’s a point but then the best option remains the use of a separate phone and sim card for his private dates as both parties (the client and yourself) have to feel comfortable and at ease during the very first contact before considering to see each other.

Indeed, are there any real reasons why a client who expects something from you do not want you to know who is ringing? What bother trying to communicate in the first place, especially when most Escorts are reluctant answering an unknown number?

Unknown numbers will make you waste time and money

Remember this lady: if someone calls you and they feel like they need to block their number, you should not spend your energy trying to talk to them. Usually calls from «unknown callers" are the most annoying ones, and they simply will make you waste time and money. Here is why :

* If you accept an appointment from an unknown number and the guy does not show up, you have given all your info (exact address) to someone you do not know and who is not reachable anyway unless he is the one who calls you: if he does not show up, you have wasted time to get ready and maybe you even refused another appointment from someone who called with a visible number and who was willing to come at the same time.

* Confirming an appointment from an unknown number also means that if he does not show up, you have no way to save his number in your personal blacklist. He will certainly try to call again at some point as he now knows that you answer calls even from an unknown number.

* Not answering hidden numbers is the best attitude to adopt because the more you answer them, the more they will call. For many men, it is a funny game. If you can do it, program your device so it will automatically reject all unknown numbers.

* Finally, giving your full address to an unknown number, without even being sure that he will show up is risky. Indeed, you can accept another appointment in the meantime and that guy whom you share your info with can arrive at any time, knocking at your door on your window while you are busy with another client. How shameful and uncomfortable this can be for you… And the client in your company may feel the same and never come back to you again or even worst, write a bad review about his experience with you…

Unknown number? The best would be to program your phone so that it systematically rejects hidden numbers. If this option is not possible, let it ring. Let it ring! Never respond. Responding would confirm that your number is the correct one. Answering would be confirming that you are available and that this call annoys you. Answering would please him.


Your safety above all!

As an independent Escort, you should have control over your agenda, decide who you want to see or not and who worth your time and who doesn’t. I think hiding a number when calling is very rude. A man who calls and imposes his own rules to you without respecting your time and your professionalism is not a good client anyway, no matter how much money he has or pretends to have, no matter how many hours he intends to stay. A Gentleman who comes to see an Escort will always follow her rules because he wants the date to be as smooth and friendly as possible. He also understands that you need to be comfortable in order to be 100% focused on him and therefore, he will avoid doing anything which might be a source of irritation for you.

Unknown calls in this industry are rarely something good. Remember ladies, you use a phone because it is an advantage for you. You don’t invest in it being advantageous for someone else. This should not be part of your overall plan.

Even if your day has been slow or if you did not make any money at all, do not lower your standards and your reputation allowing men who have no respect for your work (and for you) contacting you. The few who insist on calling from an unknown number are deluded in some way. Do not fall into their trap. Be proud of yourself, be professional and do not break your basic rules: Do not answer an unknown number, no matter the reason. If they want to remain a private number, well you should remain private too by not answering them and it will all stay very private on both side…

Whatever the reason, you must ALWAYS be able to identify whoever is calling you. It is a sign of respect for your time, for your person but above all essential for your safety.


Janet – The Velvet Rooms

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