14 / 03 / 2019
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Tips for men : 12 things you should never accept from an Escort !

Before accepting to see a client, an Escort usually expects him to meet a few basic requirements which are for her very important as they increase the chances to spend a great moment with her guest. Many things which seem insignificant to you (being vulgar on the phone, arrasing her by calling 50 times in a row or refusing to shower once at her place…)  could make that Escort not want to see you at all/again.

But it takes tow to tango !

Indeed, in order to spend an enjoyable time with your chosen Escort, an active cooperation is needed from both parts. She has the right to choose whom she wants to spend time with but YOU, as a client, also have the right to have expectations and to be as demanding as she is. It is about her time, that’s true. But it is also about your money, right? So, be picky ! There are many Escorts out there, why would you accept the unacceptable ? Don’t settle for less and discover here below what as an Client of Escorts, you should not accept :


1- Standing too long in front of the door

You have an appointment at 2pm with that Escort in Zug, you are on time but the lady does not answer the phone or does not open the door within 7 minutes following your first call ? Just leave. No matter what, do not wait more than 10 minutes. It can be very uncomfortable and embarrassing to stand in front of a door which is remaining closed for some unknown reasons although an appointment has been confirmed. Why would you accept to look like an idiot in front of a closed door ?


2- Service and price don’t match !

Too many Escorts think they can just play around with clients the way they want to, especially when they look extremely attractive. Statistically, the more attractive they are (physically I mean), the less special is their service. Of course, they are always exceptions but most of the time it is like this. So, make sure to agree on the price before going to see her. If once in the room she is asking for more or not providing the service she advertised for, just pay her what you both agreed on, leave and never come back. Why would you come back just to look at a nicely warpped present which is empty inside?


3- No shower facilities at her Incall place

Seriously? Are you seriously going to pay 300 CHF an hour to spend some intimacy in a room which has no shower facilities? Do you think it is cool to go back to your office and have your colleagues telling you that you smell strange… ? Please Gentlemen, said no to that! Before confirming your appointment, ask the girl if you can shower at her permises, on your arrival and before your departure. If the answer is no , forget it ! No matter how beautiful she can be. In this kind of business, you should not mess with hygiene !


4- Answering the phone or texting while being with you

Unless we are talking about a very urgent call, there is absolutly no reason why an Escort would give her attention to anything else or anyone else but you ! That’s your time you paid for and her main focus should be only YOU. If this happens to you, tell her kindly to put her phone on silence as it is disturbing you. Answering the phone or texting  in front of you is not acceptable, disrespectful and unprofessional. Why would you accept your hard-earned money to be treated like that? No way!


5- Vulgarity and agressiveness

This applies for both parties, of course. Escorts often blame men for being rude on the phone or via text messages when contacting them. Well, they are some girls who are like that too. Within the first seconds on the phone, you can feel their agressiveness, their crude words. You haven’t met them yet but they already seem to be unfriendly and nasty. As long as you are kind and polite on the phone, you should expect the same from the Escort you want to visit and a short phone call can sometimes tell you a lot about the kind of companionship you may experience. Do not let an Escort talk to you like if you were a piece of shit as believe me, she will never accept to be talked like that either!


6- Fake pictures !

This has been a reccuring theme in this blog and I’ve already written a lot about that topic… But it is a real problematic in the sex industry. Over 80% of sex workers advertise their services while using stolen pictures. The girl opening you the door is completely different from the pictures she uses to work? Tell her kindly why you can’t stay and why you will not pay her. By cheating, one cannot win every time : hopefully she will learn the lesson !

At TheVelvetRooms, I guarantee that 100% of our Ladys look exactly like in their pictures and 70% of them have been photographed by our photographer. So, no bad surprises when it comes to meet one of our Velvet Models.


7- Asking you personal questions

Experienced Escort Girls will know how to lead an interesting conversation without being intrusive. Unless you start talking about it, she should not ask you any personal questions such as : „Are you married ? Do you have kids? Where do you work?“ She does not need to know anything about you if you don’t wish to, and the same applies to you towards her.


8- Strange smell in the room…

You are stepping in her apartment and it smells strange… Fried chicken/Mc Donald’s smell ? Smell of moisture ? Stale smell ? Why she can’t open the window to freshen up the room before your arrival and use some candles or airspray to have you feel comfortabe within the first minutes of your arrival ? If the smell of her room annoys you, kindly ask her to open the window. These little details are often much more important than they seem…


9- Dirty sheets and towels

At TheVelvetRooms, towels and bedsheets are being changed systematically. A clean towel (sometimes even two) will be always given to our guests.

Do you know that at many locations, bedsheets, pillow cases and towels are not regularly washed? Yes… ! I know, it is disgusting… But some girls don’t care about the hygiene of their work environment. They will have you lay on dirty bedsheets and they will not give you a fresh towel to use after your shower. No, they will give you a towel which has already been used three or four times by other clients (to save time and money or because they are too lazy to do the laundry)… I am not kidding. It happends very often. So, a little advice from me : pay attention to these details and be demanding. I am going to say it once again : an Escort who is enable to provide a clean Incall environement for her clients does not worth the price she is asking for. Keep that in mind Gentlemen !


10- Calling you each time she is in town…

Some guests like to be informed when their favorite Escort is back in town. The most discreet Escorts will let you know by contacting you discreetly via SMS or Email. Stay away from those calling you a bit too much, leaving you voice messages on Whatsapp to ask you when you want to come… No, no, no !

The first quality of an Escort should be to be „discreet“ and avoiding to annoy their clients with such messages (unless they have been allowed to do so). You don’t want your wife or your colleagues to accidently find out these kind of messages in your phone. If you wish to keep track on your favorite Escort, simply look at her website and see when she will be back in town. If she has no website, ask her when she is planning to return and tell her that you prefer to contact her when she will be back rather than having her contacting you. Tell her that you don’t want to receive any calls or any text messages until you contact her.


11- No basics in the room !

The location is kind of dubious, once inside, her place looks messy… and on top oft hat, there are no toilet paper in the restroom, no mouthwash and no shower gel in the bathroom, no tissue paper to clean your fingers and your „best friend“ after the service? WTF ???


12- Pressuring you to leave

Many Swiss Escorts are simply low class. They will do anything for money and won’t care about the rest. They will not care about making you feel good around them. No, they will trick the time, make you ejaculate as quickly as possible, then tell something like this : „Time is over now, you’ve already come once. Now you have to go because I have another client coming in 5 minutes.“  No, I am not exaggerating: that’s the kind of service you will get in the vast majority of times…


Gentlemen, don’t get trapped by a pretty face! Do your homework first and take the time to choose properly your Escort encounter. Cherish your hard-earned money by being demanding with yourself and with what you get !

At TheVelvetRooms we are really doing our best to „keep our heels and standards high“ ,to create the best environment possible which enables our Models and their clients to truly bond and enjoy their time together, going way beyond a simple cash transaction…

Why?  Because it takes two to tango ! :-)


Janet for TheVelvetRooms

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