27 / 05 / 2025
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Small Talk: 12 respectful questions to ask an Escort

 

Engaging in small talk is increasingly significant during a meeting between an independent Escort and her client, especially during a GFE encounter. The ability to converse lightly without being intrusive is a crucial social skill—it fosters connection while honoring personal boundaries.

The guideline is that the Escort refrains from posing any indiscreet inquiries about her guest's private life, and conversely, the client should keep a respectful distance from the questions directed at the Sex Worker he meets. To ensure that the time spent together is as enjoyable as possible, certain protocols must be followed so that the small talk remains comfortable for everyone involved.

Generally speaking, an independent Escort does not welcome questions that directly pertain to her role as a Sex Worker, and even less so when a client attempts to pry into her personal life from the very first meeting, such as: What’s your real name? Why are you doing this job? Do you have a boyfriend? How many clients have you seen today? Additionally, it’s best to steer clear of sensitive small talk topics like religion, politics, or war, which are irrelevant to the nature of the encounter.

Gentlemen, please be cautious and discreet to help her feel comfortable, as ultimately, you expect a "return on investment," don’t you?

If you find yourself feeling shy, introverted, anxious, curious, clumsy, or simply thrilled about this unique encounter, begin your small talk with some straightforward, general, and engaging questions that can ease the mood. Aim to make the lady smile while also allowing yourself to learn more about her quickly.

In case you weren't aware, a woman (particularly one who is very attractive) tends to be more drawn to a man who shows genuine interest in her as an individual and praises her for qualities beyond just her physical appearance...

Here are 12 simple suggestions for questions or small talk topics you can bring up with an Escort, ensuring she feels at ease, and you don't come across as intrusive:

* What do you like most about Zürich (or the city you are meeting her)?

* What are your hobbies?

* What are some of your favorite movies / What’s the last good movie you saw?

* What’s the best meal you’ve ever had?

* Do you have any pets? / Are you a cat or a dog person?

* What is your dream vacation destination? / What is the best trip you ever took?

* Do you like road trips? / What’s the best road trip you’ve ever been on?

* What’s the funniest or strangest thing you have ever witnessed in public?

* What’s your secret talent?

* What is one thing you’ve always wanted to do?

* Are you more a day person or a night person ?

* What would you choose — a day on a yacht, or a day in a Lamborghini?

 

Then, pay close attention to her reactions—her tone, body language, and eye contact. If she provides brief responses or appears distracted, it’s best to step back or shift the topic. Conversely, if she seems engaged, you can slowly start to ask more personal (yet still respectful) questions.

To prevent sounding like an interviewer during a small talk, share your own reactions; this demonstrates your openness and helps build trust.

Light-hearted jokes or humorous remarks about the setting can help alleviate tension, but tread carefully: not everyone shares the same sense of humor.

If the girl shows signs that she wants to end the small talk (like looking around, checking her phone, or turning her body away), gracefully wrap it up.

Unless she brings it up herself, steer clear of small talk sensitive topics such as age, income, religion, politics, relationship status, past traumas, or deeply personal beliefs. If you wouldn’t ask it in a first job interview, don’t bring it up at the beginning of a small talk with an escort.

Finally, remember not to let small talk drag on indefinitely. It can dampen the mood, as the escort might feel uncomfortable reminding you that there are only 30 minutes left out of the hour you booked with her…

Becoming skilled at small talk will make you more approachable and likable in the eyes of an escort.

 

Janet – The Velvet Rooms

 


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