25 / 12 / 2018
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Dating an Escort? 10 tips for 100% discretion! 


Many of you are simply naive or unaware when it comes to covering your tracks concerning your communications with Swiss Escort Girls.

Many of you tend to think that nobody will ever check your phones, computers, tablets or excuses you may give. But you are wrong… Many clients like you have been found out by accident many times. A family member may innocently use your phone to order some Chinese food, only to find out that a phone number saved as “Pamela” has been called eight times in the last two weeks…

So, how can you become more discreet with your escorts’ encounters?  Because „Happy Clients“ are for us as important as „Happy Escorts“, here are a few tips from TheVelvetRooms.

1-Email correspondence

Maintain an email account that is strictly, exclusively reserved for communication with escorts. With the wide variety of webmail resources available, establishing an email account for this type of use should be simple.  Many clients unknowingly use their personal or business email address for ALL communications, ranging from work to bills to online dating. Their personal or business emails often link them to their social networking accounts, such as Facebook, Instagram or Twitter. This makes it very easy for an escort to screen you, but it also makes you vulnerable to blackmail from a less-than-ethical escort or discovery by a significant other or a family member. For your own privacy, you should correspond with your Escort from an account that nobody else knows about.

2-Phone number

If you would like to save Escorts’ numbers in your phone, save it under the most generic, boring names that relates to your business. The best is to have a second phone...only for your Escorts dates...

Escort numbers should not be saved in your phone by their names. The contact names should be something that would never create red flags for someone who happened to be thumbing through your phone… You should take extra precautions with your phone such as deleting call logs and text messages. Even if you don’t delete all call logs, you should at least go through and delete your calls individually. The same thing goes for text messages exchanged between the two of you. Finally, if you don’t have one yet, your should set up a password for your phone. Setting up a password can help to deter someone from accidentally finding incriminating information.

3-WhatsApp conversations

Purge WhatsApp chat logs. Even if a WhatsApp session gets pretty hot and steamy, you should always, always, always delete the chat log. An intense, specific chat will give you away, for sure. A chat that isn’t specific can give you away, too. You need to learn that you should delete it every time you are online with someone else in order to protect your privacy.

4-Your computer

Use a software that clears your computer of temporary files and logs. Some of you may not be comfortable enough with the technology to remember to clear their browser history. For these clients, there is another option: memory clearing software. Programs such as CC Cleaner and Eraser help swipe your computer clean of anything that you don’t need anymore – including traces that nobody has to know about. These programs can help you get rid of emails, web history, photos, chats and anything else that a spouse might find…

5-Phone bills

If you can do it, try to arrange for your phone bills to be sent to your office or some other location. Even though you may feel certain that your significant other will never even glance at the phone bills, you could be wrong, especially if she ever becomes suspicious. The best option would be to have your bills sent electronically.

6-Parking tickets

Do you know that getting parking tickets can link you directly back to sessions at an Incall place or in a Hotel ? Please, be very, very respectful of the law, especially if you are meeting in an entirely different part of town than those you normally visit…

7-Pay Cash

Cash is king ! Pay your escort cash as often as possible and if you want to buy something in her neighborhood, use cash as well. Credit card charges found on a bill from locations out of your normal way can cause questions. It’s best that you use cash if you stop to get a bottle of wine or get fuel on your way to see an escort. Cash is never traceable – unless you keep a receipt in your pocket. :-(

8-Bank account

If you really don’t like having cash on you permanently, establish a separate bank account for the money you will use for escorts. A spouse is guaranteed be enraged at the discovery of financial activity that she is not part of. The escort-related account should be with an entirely different bank. Online statements can be sent to the email address your opened following our 1st advice. You should never, ever give an excuse that can be checked on and/or verified.

9-Learn how to make good excuses

If you simply tell your wife that you are working late, you will one day get caught.  It’s too easy for her to drive by your office, call your office number or just drop in. You can use the excuse that you are taking a client to dinner… not sure where, yet. Or that you are doing research for a project downtown. Or that you got to drop files off at another office and then run some other errands. Remember that your excuses should always be somewhat vague (never too detailed, because it’s too hard to remember and too easy to contradict oneself) and somewhat non-committal. In other words, your excuse for where you are when you are seeing an escort should allow yourself room for your plans to change within your excuse. Some of the biggest mistakes clients make when they are explaining where they’re going to be instead of home (when they’re actually with an escort) is that they provide a bad excuse. And, a client should always have an excuse ready when asked. However, many Gentlemen find that an excuse is often not even required, so it’s best to just stay quiet unless asked.

10-Wipe off the physical evidence

Perfume (your escort shouldn’t be using too much of it in the first place), the scent of her body lotion or even the smell of her Incall place can linger on your skin long after she has left your arms. Please Gentlemen, have a shower before returning to your “real” life. And when you shower, you shouldn’t try out the flowery-smelling shower gel in the bathroom. It’s bad enough that an unusual scent could linger on a one’s coat or shirt collar, but her scent on your skin is not quite as temporary. A client who showers when he leaves an escort date will not have too much to explain later...

I hope you have found that article useful Gentlemen!

They will be many more to come in 2019, to help you enjoy every single date with your chosen Escort!


Janet for TheVelvetRooms

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