Escort -Girls: Why are you contacted by so many cheap clients?

While working as an Escort in Switzerland, one of the biggest challenges is to attract the best clients. By that I mean those men who are courteous on the phone, polite in formulating their wishes, respectful during their visit and generous, even beyond your expectations.

These men do not belong to the majority of those visiting escorts. I would say that they certainly represent 30% of all independent escorts’ customers. These are potentially the best clients, the clients you should focus on. The rest will only be a waste of time and money.

So how do you attract these clients of a certain standard and transform them into regular customers? Here are some tips that I am happy to share with you.

How to recognize "cheap" clients?

As soon as you have gained some experience as an Escort, you will be able to detect them fairly quickly. This is usually the man who is rude on the phone because he sees you as a "thing", not as a person. He therefore addresses you badly, do not say hello, speak to you as if you were a second-class citizen and hang up in your face when he is not happy with the answers you give him.

If by chance he manages to meet you, this client is often vulgar, sometimes even dirty (he may refuse to shower), neglected, he has little conversation, tries to negotiate your rates and will never leave you a tip or bring you a gift. He's also the kind of guy who wants everything included in a service without paying for it. He will ask you for a bunch of services that are not listed in your ad (which he certainly hasn't read) or that you do not offer because once again, he sees you as a „thing“. Often his level of English or German is bad ...

To make it short, if these types of clients come to see you once, my advice: block their number forever so that they never come back again. There are not the kind of clients you deserve and even less the one who appreciate your escort work at its fair value. Being an escort it's not an easy job so if you can choose who you want to meet, do it and refuse to accept just anyone. As an escort, nothing should be more valuable than your integrity.

How to attract valuable clients?

If you find that too many "cheap" clients are contacting you, there is surely a problem in the way you present yourself. This presentation starts online. In fact, the advertisement that you will publish on the internet is generally the very first contact that potential clients have with you. You can't afford a „faux pas“ here. The less sophisticated your ad appears, the more you will attract "weird" guys. When preparing your online advertisement, make sure to pay attention to the following points:

Your pictures
Publish stylish and natural photos of yourself. Remember that men don't think like women. The more and the fastest you strip off, the less they show value in you and the more they disrespect you. Showing your bare breasts, your pussy, your face full of sperm and 10cm long nails will never attract men of a certain social class. Believe me, vulgarity puts off clients who have money. Present yourself in an elegant way, in evening shoes, in dress, not too much makeup and please, smile in your pictures! You will see, compliments towards you won’t stop.

Your advertising text
Make sure your description is spelled correctly and not in vulgar language. Too many girls pay a third person to write their advertising text. Very often, this person is a man who does not know you, who does not give a damn about the services you offer (and does not ask you about it either), who will write a text worthy of a porn movie that will attract clients you don't want. If he works for an erotic studio or a Club, it doesn't matter to him who comes, as long as there are clients ...

Ladies, the best is actually to write your description yourself (use Google translator if necessary) and have it corrected by someone who speaks the language well (English or German). Also, double check that the services listed in your profile match the services you actually offer because if not, it will automatically attract clients with inappropriate requests.

Before the client is at your doorstep, you must pay attention to two things that are critical: the environment in which you are receiving him and how you welcome him. These two elements in addition to the quality of your service will make the customer come back to you or not.

Your location
The place where you receive your clients must be a discreet and pleasant incall location. Again, I emphasize that men are very visual, and I can assure you that they are even more picky when they have to pay for it... Therefore, make sure to meet your client in a place / at an address that will not make him ashamed/uncomfortable and make sure that once inside, everything is tidy, smells and feels good. Trust me, all this is extremely important in the eyes of your clients.

Your look and your behavior
The way you will receive your client is also something crucial. Too many girls take their attributes for granted and many clients can’t stand that. Just because a customer comes to see you doesn't mean he will stay ... or even come back to you. Be elegant and smiling, pay attention to your nails (also toenails) put on beautiful lingerie, always have your heels on when you open the door and always offer him something to drink. Be interested and interesting. Be careful the way you speak: a too familiar language can play to your disadvantage. If you think the customer will come back just because you're beautiful, you’re dreaming! If you do not know how to welcome him properly, he will leave immediately or never return. And of course, make sure you offer him what is listed in your "menu". Never promote services that you do not offer: clients, especially those of a certain social level do not like to be taken for idiots.
 
Set your standard
My fifth and last tip concerns your rates. I have known clients who have confessed to me that below a certain hourly rate, they would not go to see an escort because for them, a too low price means that there is "eel under the rock ". Too many "poor" people think that people who have money are stingy. In fact, it is not true. They can be very generous, but it has to be worth it. They are also used to living in an environment where quality has a price. So, if you know the value of the experience you can share with a man, set your standard high while choosing prices that reflect both your service and the average local market price: you need to find the right balance. You don't want to offer services for too cheap for fear of attracting the wrong clients, but you also can't charge too much for fear of attracting no customers at all! You should also avoid unjustified irregularities and fluctuations in your rates, as these make customers dubious.

For the "cheap" and the "timewasters" it is quite the opposite: these clients are looking for the best deals and not necessary for a qualitative experience... But you deserve better than that, don’t you?

Escort vs Courtesan

The most successful escorts and those who manage to last a very long time in this industry without dropping their standards have developed qualities far beyond these few basic tips that I have just shared with you. Their regular clients make up to 60% of their whole clientele and they mainly have long bookings. What I’ve noticed about these ladies is that even with their regular clients, they managed to make them feel special at every single visit. These girls know how to give the best of themselves at each encounter, giving their clients the impression that the 7th visit is as authentic and as unforgettable as the very first one was. It's often the fine line that separates an escort-girl from a courtesan...


Janet -  The Velvet Rooms 

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