03 / 12 / 2024
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Escort Girls: With or without makeup?

 

Lady, do you know what many men really think about makeup, don't you? They don't dare telling us, but most men actually believe that women who wear makeup are trying to “fake it” to look more attractive than they really are...

For many escort girls, it is extremely important to be as desirable as possible for their clients. I'm not talking about the stereotypical prostitute or street sex worker (for these two categories of sex workers, the way they present themselves may not be as important). I am referring here to the escort girl. This woman who works in a private/upscale place, sees few clients per day, has a certain educational background, can hold a conversation, usually chooses the men she wants to spend time with, and whose hourly rate is relatively high. This woman, the escort, cares a lot about her appearance. And because she always wants to make sure she looks her best, she may use makeup to enhance her beauty features. We women all know that makeup is not very popular with men. But is makeup one of those things where “less is more”?

 

Lady: How do you feel when you wear makeup?

I am a woman myself and between women we can talk openly. Using makeup is a way for many of us to be in charge of our own appearance, and those who take the time to learn makeup skills feel even more confident because they have mastered the techniques to look more “beautiful/different” than they really are.

Other women already look beautiful and don't need to wear makeup, but would wear some, not to look like a different person, but to illuminate their appearance, which is already amazing without face paint. But is all this really necessary? As an escort, should you not wear makeup at all?

 

* Women can use makeup to hide themselves: When they wear makeup, they feel less conspicuous, especially if they are anxious, sad or insecure. These feelings should not be shown to customers. I agree with that. They don't come for that.

* Women wear makeup to be more seductive: they want to be more strikingly attractive. To look more confident, sociable and assertive, makeup is a must for them.

But if we are honest two minutes, do you know that makeup - such as long fake nails- isn't that important for most men? It matters, but in the long run, it's not what makes them enjoy your company. The fact is that women use makeup to position themselves among other women....

 

Gentlemen: Why do women wear makeup at all?

I'm sure each of you has asked themselves this question at least once in your life: “Why does that woman have so much makeup on?”. And if you ask them not to wear makeup at all, they rarely listen to you. They usually act like they don't care what you say or think.

And do you know why? Because women don't wear makeup for you. Women perceive other women who wear makeup as more dominant and successful. Women are even more jealous of women who wear makeup and see them as more promiscuous. A woman who wears makeup would care less about what men think of her appearance if there was no possible comparison with other women. Which is not the case in our modern society. Women are constantly comparing themselves with other women.

I have observed the same phenomenon in the escort industry. Did you know that sex portals and forums for heterosexual men have around 30% to 60% female visitors? Yes! The same applies to the TVR website, where I was very surprised to find that around 40% of visitors are women... Escorts spend hours on similar websites to see what the other escorts (obviously their competitors) look like... Yes, gentlemen, makeup is of course one of women's favorite beauty weapons, with a few exceptions. Escort ladies probably feel even more pressured to look great because the “transactional” thing creates a certain level of expectation in men. But as an escort client, how can you approach the subject without offending them?

 

How can you tell her as a “hobbyist”...?

As a client of escort girls (also known as “hobbyist”), you are allowed to ask for certain things that are important to you. If the request is politely worded, does not come on short notice and isn't intrusive, the escort will usually not disappoint you as long as she feels comfortable with your request.

If you don't like makeup (some men really don't like it, especially thickly applied lipstick), just ask her if she could perhaps do without makeup. Some women will say no, others will agree to meet you without makeup. However, don't be too naive... Don't expect them to wear no makeup at all! Very few will dare to show you their face completely without makeup. But at least if you clearly mention that you don't like makeup, the normal reaction of an escort girl would be to use as little makeup as possible (just the bare minimum so she still feels comfortable) or some kind of makeup that makes her look more natural. That way it should make you both happy.

Why? Let's face it, gentlemen: although you constantly preach that you like natural ladies (see, you've told your wife/girlfriend so many times that she doesn't make any effort now and her “natural beauty” is much less attractive to you today than it was before), we all know it's not true. What you mean is that you don't like women with too much makeup on. Actually, you prefer women with a natural makeup look, like the girl next door. But makeup is still something you like on women, as long as it doesn't look too overdone. Am I wrong? So please stop telling women that you like them without makeup, because all of us know that it is only partly truth. What's more, you're misleading them.

 

Makeup: “Less is more”?

Coming to the end of this article, we now know the following: Most women who don't wear makeup at all are seen by men as friendly, harmless and nice, but not necessarily sexually attractive. Women who use an average amount of makeup are usually the ones men pursue the most. Heavy glamorous / thickly applied makeup gives men the impression to date a “low value” girl. It also attracts different types of men (quantitatively versus qualitatively).

Many women wear so much makeup that it goes beyond what is considered attractive to men. And please, dear lady, don't compare yourself to women in magazines or on social media: in real life, they don't look like they pretend to look there. All this is marketing, show, illusion. Yes, the truth lies in the fact that the vast majority of these women look “normal”, just like you and me.

Being able to wear makeup is important for some women, but too many women make the mistake of wearing so much of it that they lose their edge. If the makeup is not overdone, you look more classy, likeable, trustworthy, intelligent and competent.

Remember: men are extremely visual (on average far more so than women). Be mindful of the impression you want to make and focus on using makeup to enhance your natural beauty, rather than looking like a completely different person.

As an escort, you want to build a long-term 'connection' with your client so that he becomes a repeat customer (as we all know how valuable regular clients are). Please don't lie to him by hiding behind too much makeup, because following an “overnight stay” he may never want to see you again after seeing your real face waking up in the morning, without makeup...

 

Janet - The Velvet Rooms

 

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