No more Fellatio, No more Sex: A man’s perspective.

On February, 7th, 2018 an interesting article was published on TVR : " No more blowjob? Find out why your wife/girlfriend no longer gives you a blowjob".

 
This article, will give you a man's perspective on the topic, talking about sex in general, not just fellatio.

So you have been together for a while and there is no spark in the bedroom anymore? Never mind fellatio, there is almost no sex at all. And in most cases, it is because your woman does not want any sex or is using it as leverage to control you. As a rule, men have a higher sex drive than women, but that big of a gap is a sign that you should not ignore.

In this article, I go through the main arguments exposed in TVR's previous article on the subject of fellatio and I share my opinion which broadens the men-women relationship to sex in its global context.


SHE NEVER LIKED IT

Men and women are different...but when you get down to it, the only things that, as a (straight) man, your guy friends cannot provide you with are sex and kids. So, if one or both are off the table why be with a woman? Might as well just have guy friends and pay an escort girl for sex when in need. Men choose women for their beauty, and let’s face it, for how good they are in the sack, before almost anything else. So, if she doesn’t like sex the way you do (or almost), you shouldn’t be with her. And if she only gave you sex to keep you around in the beginning or if she only did certain sex acts like a fellatio at first and then shied away from those sex acts later on, she was misrepresenting herself to you. AKA lying...you shouldn’t have liars in your life.


YOU HAVE STOPPED GOING DOWN ON HER

What? Don’t be a selfish lover. Only bad hygiene should stop you from going down on her. In which case, why are you with someone who’s never seen the inside of a shower !!!?
 

SHE HAS RESSENTMENT TOWARDS YOU

This is a no-brainer, do your share !!! However, statistically, men work much longer hours for most of their lives. If this is the case, the guy might deserve to do less housework. Stressed out? Since when has sex not been a great stress reliever, for the BOTH OF YOU !!! And ladies, here’s a tip: a man will NEVER, after you first move in together, do more housework to keep you around. No misrepresentation here...You may change him a bit, but not much. What you see is what you get. Men tend to be less tidy than women, so they let certain things go that a woman wouldn’t, like laundry, dirty dishes, etc. So, if the guy is a lot different from you (just like for the libido gap mentioned above), that guy shouldn’t be in your life. The resentment you will feel in those cases will be of your own making; most of it at least, because you lied to yourself about him.


SHE IS NOT IN LOVE ANYMORE

Guys, like escort girls, can be very intimate with women without having feelings for them. Even if it is true that in a relationship, the more intimate you get with your partner, the deeper and stronger the love, this is not really as big a deal for guys. A fellatio or occasional impersonal sex with a woman is not great but it beats masturbation. Ladies, you have to understand something: men get rejected 9 out of 10 times when they approach women, they do not need more rejection while in a relationship. Every time a guy has to masturbate because he is not getting sex, he feels rejected. It is the fastest way, outside of cheating, to lose a man. Most couples look for 3 things in their relationship: affection, sex, and communication. Women cannot live without communication, men cannot live without sex (which includes fellatio, of course). If he does go without sex, expect to be talking to a wall and forget affection. If you hijack his sex life, he will take affection and communication hostage. Learn to trade.
 

IT IS TAKING YOU TOO LONG TO EJACULATE

This one makes me laugh. Most sex-starved men usually blow their load super-fast!!! In fact, women usually hate that and hold back on sex even more because their man does not last long enough to get them off. As far as a fellatio go, come on, it is not that much work, and there is no jaw pain, get serious!!! I have never given one, but I have spent many hot summer days sucking on one Popsicle after another for hours. No jaw pain, no effort. Now let’s talk about cunnilingus: having your neck cranked up in an awkward position, between a pair of legs is not exactly comfortable. And what about the fact that most women need something like 20 minutes (or more) to get off!!! And most of them, when they climax lock their legs up around your head and you can’t breathe!!! You are there hoping she doesn’t squirt !!! Oh, and by the way, if you cannot make a guy cum in less than 10 minutes, your fellatio suck...or maybe they don’t suck enough...LOL.

MAKE HER FEEL SEXY!

That’s pretty self-evident. However, the list of things needed to make a woman happy is a mile long. Honestly, it is exhausting. Even worse, the list is subject to change without notice. The list to keep a guy happy: fuck him, and suck him, often. By the way, men need to feel appreciated too. A non-existent sex life is not a good way to make a man feel good about himself. Women should also work hard to deserve their man. Men are far more often taken for granted. This is almost always a one-way street. I don’t remember seeing any women lined up at the florist on Valentine’s Day....do you? Women expect to be taken out, get flowers and gifts, etc. Men expect not only a fellatio but a sex life.


SHOW HER THAT YOU LOVE IT

If the guy just lays there as if in a coma while you are giving him a fellatio, you are doing it wrong...or he just got a massive heart attack...
 

J.R. (TVR reader & follower) – The Velvet Rooms

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