27 / 05 / 2024
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Why are Switzerland Dating Sites a waste of time?

 

Have you also experienced spending a lot of time on Switzerland Dating Sites without experiencing great success?

Then you are not alone as a man. Most men have had this experience with Switzerland Dating Sites and for several reasons.

Of course, men's perspective in Switzerland dating Sites may be different from that of women. Although I am a woman, I am writing this article based on the statements and confidences of men in my circle of acquaintances. It is therefore the male perspective that is at the forefront of this article.

 

Male and female genders: different motivations

For a man, there are two reasons why he engages in Switzerland Dating Sites: Either he is looking for a relationship or he is simply looking for sex. For women, there are four reasons: They are either looking for a steady or short-term relationship, sex, attention/confirmation (that they can still please a man) or someone who can support them financially. The characteristics of the four reasons that motivate their search are not mutually exclusive and can complement each other.

 

Switzerland dating Sites: a hopeless game

If you are a man who is only looking for sex via Switzerland Dating Sites, you should be aware of one thing: The competition is fierce. It should come as no surprise that significantly more men than women use Switzerland dating Sites to look for sex. So, it is obvious that a man who wants to land a reasonably attractive woman has to be in the top 20% of the most attractive men himself - if not the top 10%!

If the search is more relationship-oriented, the choice of women is of course greater, but it doesn't necessarily get much easier. You have to do a lot of navigating.

Switzerland Dating Sites are much easier for both men and women to approach someone than out there in the real world. A little note or simply showing interest with a wave or something similar doesn't require much effort, but it can take a long time before it becomes clear whether there really is a genuine interest. The first challenge for the man is of course to find out whether she is really looking for a relationship or just wants attention and confirmation or something else. There is also the whole problem that anyone can present themselves online as they wish. What is true and what is not? You may only find out at a much later date.

But Switzerland dating Sites use sophisticated questionnaires to help you find the right match quickly, don't they? At least that is what the advertising promises. However, a study from the USA shows that, even with over 100 indicators of personality and preferences per participant, the computer was unable to help find the right match. The search for a partner is probably simply a too chaotic process with too unpredictable metrics, a dynamic of its own to be helped by computer algorithms.

 

Switzerland Dating Sites: not the faster way for most men

As people pursue Switzerland Dating Sites for different reasons, mismatches and misrepresentations can lead to frustration, disappointment and wasted efforts, for both men and women. Apparently, it is not as easy as it used to be on Tinder either...  The wide choice also makes it difficult to commit to one person and pushes you to constantly search for better matches.  If you are a busy man with little time to spare, you will find Switzerland Dating Sites very time consuming as it does not bring guaranteed results. Some men have gone even to the extreme and seem to get a lot of satisfaction from a sex doll...but I think it is not the cup of tea of the vast majority.

Perhaps you would be doing yourself a favor if you realized that there is no quick way to find a partner with Switzerland Dating Sites. When looking for sex and tenderness, however, there is. That is what the professionals are for.

Have fun!

 

Janet - The Velvet Rooms

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