How to become a successful premium escort in Switzerland?

How to become premium escort? Whether you are a girl looking for information on how to become an independent escort or a Gentleman who is a regular escorts’ customer, just by reading the title of this article, you may want to laugh…and I know why.

Because you are wondering what I am talking about. Because in your opinion, anyone can be a premium escort. You think that there are no criteria when it comes to having sex for money. You think that anyone can be a prostitute. Well, you are right. Anyone can have sex with strangers but not any girl can be an escort, let alone a premium escort. I'm not even talking about courtesans, who are a class of their own.

Becoming a premium Escort does not happen overnight and needs proper guidance, especially for girls/ladies starting in this industry. In this article, I will mainly focus on independent premium escorts and list the essential skills you should have before even considering becoming a premium escort.

If you are only interested in making money, considering regular prostitution may be an option. But if you are planning to be in this industry for a while and are looking for a higher type of clientele, becoming a premium escort may be a better option for you.

Many girls who start this job quit within 3 months as they quickly realize that just having a pretty face is not enough in this industry which has become very competitive.  If you are over 18 years old, you will find here below my 10 tips to help you find out if becoming a premium escort is something for you or not.

Becoming a premium escort should be your own decision

Unfortunately, the vast majority of sex workers have a pimp or a Loverboy, someone who pressures them or forces them to be active in this industry they do not belong to. If you have a so called „boyfriend“ or a „man“ who encourages you into this, please reconsider. It is not a good idea if this is not what you really want to do.

A premium escort should have a goal

Like everything in life, when you have a clear goal to reach, a clear vision of the reasons why you are doing sex work, it makes the whole thing much easier to accept, it gives you strength (because you will need it) and energy to reach that goal you have and take this premium escort job as something serious which will help you focus on reaching your goal faster. Don’t do it just for the sake of the money. If money is your only target, you will not last very long as an Independent premium escort.

Feeling comfortable with strangers is part of being a premium escort

A premium escort should not be an introvert person and should feel comfortable among strangers as most clients will be men she never met before. If you are not at ease in the company of persons you do not know, how can you possibly have sex with them?

A premium escort has some conversation

Many clients will see a premium escort to have the opportunity to have sex with her, that’s true. But 50% of them will appreciate to speak with you while have a great GFE. Sometimes, the „talking part“ can last longer than the „sex time“. Be funny and entertaining, have some conversation, read books, learn languages, listen to the news, inform yourself about the world and have interesting hobbies. The best Escorts do not look like Top-Models but rather like the girl next door, with a hint of elegance and self-confidence. Having a pretty face helps a lot but that’s not enough. The more intellectual you will be, the better you will work. Gentlemen who have money and who are willing to spend hours with you will expect more than just some pillow-talks.

Develop your soft-skills as a premium escort

If hard skills cover your technical skills, soft skills are your personal and social skills, oriented towards human interactions. Unlike the intellectual quotient, they call upon emotional intelligence and play a key role in the development of an individual within their environment.

Soft skills are specific qualities related to your interpersonal skills: concerning yourself and what you implement in a situation such as endurance, sense of efficiency, resistance to stress, resourcefulness, sense of responsibility, autonomy, flexibility, desire to learn, sense of organization, reliability, patience, taking initiatives, taste for challenge, etc. defining how you relate to others, how you collaborate (team spirit, sense of collective) or how you communicate (ability to initiate a discussion, adapting your communication style, sharpen your listening skills, etc.).

A successful premium escort has developed incredible soft skills which help her in a very fast and easy way to naturally bond with her clients and have them come back again and again...

A premium escort is demanding with herself

Do you want to be a premium escort who attracts the best clients? Then show them the best version of yourself. First, be demanding with yourself before expecting them to be the same towards you. Take care of your appearance, be well-groomed, elegant, punctual, friendly, polite, customer-service oriented and you will attract the same kind of men. If you look low-class, behave and speak like a ghetto girl, expect a higher number of cheap requests and time wasters trying to reach you. And remember this: „You attract the image you convey, not what you want. If you want qualitative dates, then be qualitative! “

A premium escort has learnt to be patient

As a premium escort, your income will essentially be based on how many returning customers you have.  Your goal is to make regular and repeat customers, and that will only happen if you give them an experience that makes them happy so that next time, they book you again and no one else. Indeed, regular clients represent 50% of Escorts' income and guarantee you a certain financial stability. So yes, starting without those loyal clients is harder at the beginning and needs from you a lot of patience and obstinacy. You may have some days with no earning at all… be prepared for that and be patient. But you will see, it will eventually pay off!

A premium escort has mastered consistency

A top premium escort is a lady who has learnt that consistency is one of the biggest keys of her success. A man who pays for your companionship (for your time) does not like to be disappointed or taken for granted by you because he visited you 10 times already. If another one books for 1 hour and comes within 10 minutes, well, then you still have 50 minutes to give your very best. It is not that you just do your work and walk away... Talented Escorts treat their clients, -especially the regular ones- in a very special way and make sure that their service remains the same or even better at each visit. It is not what you do once in a while that will shape your career as an independent premium escort but what you do consistently. The sex industry has become very competitive, never forget this. If as a premium escort you cannot be consistent in your attitude and in the service, you provide, Gentlemen will not return to see you just because of your pretty, that’s for sure.

A premium escort doesn’t try to be who she is not

Don’t get into the trap of working with fake pictures or pictures which are 10 years old. Don’t advertise services you do not offer (or like to offer) just in order to attract more clients.  List only the services you enjoy doing, update your pictures at least once a year. Men are not stupid. Don’t take them for a fool. As you are not here to waste your time, respect their time as well. In other words : „Don’t sell a product which is out of stock or which does not exist“. If you do so, expect bad reviews being written about you. Too many bad comments can quickly end your career as a premium escort…even if you change your working name and your pictures. There is always someone, somewhere, someday who will find you and bring back your lies and bad services on the headlines…

Remain professional and protect your privacy as a premium escort

Please, don’t get blown away by this young handsome banker who looks like Brad Pitt and tells you that he wants to leave his wife and starts a relationship with you. Pretty Woman scenarios may happen but are nowadays kind of rare in this industry... Yes, this Gentleman turns head, and he is a regular client of yours but please, remain professional. He is a client: not less, not more. And you are for him an Escort: not less, not more. Don’t fall in love, don’t ask personal questions (unless the client allows you to do so), don’t give him your private phone number or your real name. A premium escort should learn how to define boundaries in order not to lose/break the nice and special „connections“she has built with each of her clients.

Becoming a premium escort: To sum up

I hope I was able to help you to figure out if being a premium escort is something for you or not. Keep on reading our blog. I will regularly publish articles written by myself which I hope, you will find interesting.

Being a premium escort is a real job. It takes a lot of time, mental strength, preparation, energy and professionalism to become a very good premium escort who earns a lot of money. Don’t listen to those who will tell you that everyone can do this job because it is not true. Anyone can be a prostitute but only a few will make it as a premium escort.
 

Janet – The Velvet Rooms 
 

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