Dos and don’ts of being an escort: A gentleman’s perspective

Despite all the tips available in this escort blog specially dedicated to independent escorts in Switzerland, many of them take the job very lightly, ignoring completely the dos and don’ts of the profession. Those who don’t take this job seriously do not understand that the only thing that will help them stand out from the competition and find a their place in this industry (meaning, being a successful escort) is their professionalism and the degree of appreciation they have for this work.

If  the only reason why you have chosen to become an independent escort is the money, you will not last in this job and it will be more difficult for you to build a clientele and earn a decent living in a consistent manner.

One day, I received an email from an excellent TVR (The Velvet Rooms) client. In this email (see below), the gentleman shares his point of view as a client and how you, as an escort, can improve yourself and your service to increase the overall satisfaction of your clients and make them want to come back to you. This customer (who wishes to remain anonymous) appreciates the site's values of authenticity and transparency. He listed for you girls (and I love his frankness), on behalf of all demanding customers like him what dos and don’ts you should follow as an escort. 

Please, find below a general message to all ladies who want to become an escort: If you are not willing to give your best, don't even think of becoming an escort because nowadays, men are only willing to pay for what’s REALLY worth it in their eyes. The writer of the tips below put together a list of helpful "dos and don'ts" for escorts from a gentleman's perspective. For some of you these dos and don’ts are probably obvious. However, I’m pretty sure that for others there's room for improvement…

Dos and Don'ts N° 1:  An obvious one, but please don’t be late. That’s never a great start to a date.

Dos and Don'ts N° 2:   Do not chew gum. It’s incredibly off-putting.

Dos and Don'ts N° 3:   Do not fully undress when the gentleman is in the shower. You’re depriving the gentleman of two erotic moments: (1) seeing you in your sexy lingerie; (2) seeing you take it off!

Dos and Don'ts N° 4:   On the other hand, undress at some stage. Don’t leave your bra (or dress/trousers) on. We would like to see your beautiful body.

Dos and Don'ts N° 5:   Do not kiss me as if you’re my grandmother. Deep kisses with feeling are very much appreciated.

Dos and Don'ts N° 6:   Do wash yourself before the date. Body odour is rarely an aphrodisiac. You know this, which is why you ask us to take a shower.

Dos and Don'ts N° 7:   Turn off the television. It’s a major mood killer.

Dos and Don'ts N° 8:   Similarly, turn off the “big light”. Ambient lighting was invented for a reason.

Dos and Don'ts N° 9:   Also turn off your phone. We know that you’re popular, so there’s no need to be reminded of this by hearing message announcements every few minutes.

Dos and Don'ts N° 10:   After a gentleman has subtly included the “gift” in an envelope with your name on, please do not ask if he has forgotten this at the end of the date.

Dos and Don'ts N° 11:   If a gentleman has requested a GFE service please do not feel the need to encourage him with porn star expressions like “Come on, baby, give me your sperm!”

Dos and Don'ts N° 12:   Do not leave chocolates and flowers from previous clients in full sight, especially if they make our efforts seem trivial in comparison ;-)

Dos and Don'ts N° 13:   We understand that you cannot reply to our texts/WhatsApp messages immediately, but it would be great if you could respond within a decent time.

Dos and Don'ts N° 14:   It’s lovely if you can hold a good conversation for a genuine GFE, but if you are so talkative that you frequently interrupt the gentleman, that’s a bit too much.

Dos and Don'ts N° 15:   Please do not tell us *all* of your problems. We’re here to have fun, not act as an unpaid therapist.

Please, ladies take this in the positive spirit intended, as it is genuinely not meant to be criticism be to help you to be a better escort.

Janet – The Velvet Rooms

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