10 / 01 / 2018
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Escort vs. prostitute, what’s the difference ?

Let’s not kid ourselves; the term “escort” is a euphemism for prostitute. It’s an effort by people to make subtle distinctions between various different segments of the sex industry.

I believe, primarily, that it is a humane distancing from a word (prostitute) that has been weighed down by undue shame and stigma. Prostitution is often referred to as the oldest profession in the world, but if it is so, it must obviously be of some value to society. Demonizing the service has dehumanized the people who wish to exercise this profession. And I do emphasize “wish to”, because otherwise we are not talking about prostitution, but sex slavery. So, leaving the derogatory term by the wayside was more than justified, it was needed.

There is an understanding in the sex trade that certain words mean certain things. Prostitute, much like street-walker usually means something derogatory, lower class or downright nasty, just like brothel workers or full service parlor masseuses might feel like conveyer belt providers. They all serve a purpose and can be appropriate depending on each customer’s situation, but it probably will leave you wanting.

The use of the word “escort” implies more self-respect, better quality service or at the very least the impression that the client is not one of a multitude too many. Often times, especially for independent escorts, much work goes into weeding out potential unsuitable clients, developing a core group of high quality customers and building a “brand name”. Every aspect of the encounter, from the surroundings to the wine, candles, lingerie, etc has been carefully crafted to bring maximum pleasure to the customer. And if you ever meet an escort that blows you away on all fronts, well, you have met a courtesan…

So, it’s all about quality over quantity. It is about respecting the fact that everyone wants something special. Or that at the very least, understanding that nobody needs to be unduly reminded of the nuts and bolts of the business. Both parties to these transactions know what is going on, no need to bring up the obvious.

 

J.R. for TheVelvetRooms 

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