Don’t text: 7 reasons why you should call an escort

Have you ever tried to call an escort and once on the phone, she suddenly hung up the phone and texted you immediately after via SMS or WhatsApp messages, as if she wanted to avoid any kind of conversation ?

In this article, I will be exclusively talking about escorts who systematically communicate via text messages and deliberately never respond to a client when he is trying to call an escort.

I always wondered why independent escorts often try to pretend to be independent. Maybe because gents who know how to treat an escort are also those who know how to treat a woman. From their booking to their last goodbye kiss, those gentlemen represent the perfect dates: polite, gentle, on time, generous, friendly and respectful. All escorts dream of meeting only these kinds of clients who tend to prefer the company of real independent ladies. Usually, men willing to spend a lot of money for the company of a gorgeous lady will go for an established agency or seek a lady who is in total command of her skills; not pressured by anything or anybody. Gentlemen looking for an experience rather than just sexual intercourse will skip the Swiss brothels or the sex clubs to go for something more private, more discreet, more upscale.

In some countries, like the United States, men are used to contacting exclusive independent companions by email only. So, not to call an escort from the first contact is not unusual. Phone conversations before an appointment are not very common or mandatory, not for the very first contact, at least.

In Canada for instance, it is common for escorts to share both: their phone number and their email address, giving the potential client more options to contact them. Some will choose to call an escort, others will rather introduce themselves and share their fantasy via email.

In Europe, it works slightly differently... To call an escort is the way to go. In several countries, including Switzerland, independent sex providers will be reachable essentially by phone; and thus, calling one of them before a booking is strongly recommended to make sure that you are really dealing with an independent lady.

The thing is that, often, these gorgeous ladies advertise as if they were independent but, a short phone call can quickly make one reconsider that idea...

Are you wondering why some "independent escorts" refuse to answer when you are calling for an appointment ? One of several of the hypothesis below can apply to this trend:
 

1- She does not speak the language well (or not at all)
Her advertising says she grew up in England but apparently...she did not. She seems to be using Google translator systematically, even for basic communications. If you call an escort, you obviously expect her to be able to communicate a minimum, especially if it says in her ad, that she can hold a conversation.
 
2- She is not a real independent escort 
Many agencies present the girls working for them as independents but they are actually employees of the agency which takes a cut (%) of the money they make. When you call an escort, the agency will then answer the phone, manage their bookings, etc... These girls usually have no contact with their clients before meeting them. A real independent escort will pick up the phone herself and manage her appointments and choose who she wants to spend time with or not.

When you call an escort, you should know that there are often main two reasons why an independent escort would not answer the phone herself :

* She is very popular and busy, and she has hired a personal assistant, to organize her schedule (yes, that kind of very upscale escorts do exist !)

OR

* The girl is very shy, lacks self-confidence and for some personal reasons, picking up the phone scares her. She would then rather have someone manage her bookings.
 

3- She does not want to "small talk" with you
Well, an escort who wants to keep communications to a strict minimum, without questioning or caring about what YOU (the guest) are looking for is probably a date to avoid... Minimum communication often leads to minimum service or no service at all.

But of course, it works the other way around too… In order to avoid timewasters who love to call an escort without never making an appointment, some girls prefer not giving them a chance to play around with them. Which I think is perfectly understandable. Indeed, not all men who call an escort are well-intentioned.

4- The girl has an accent... 
Unless one is really bilingual, speaking a foreign language with no accent is not something very common. Some escorts will pretend to be Italian for example and will speak the language with a very strong accent that does not sound Italian at all... On the phone, it is not something one can easily hide. But why lying? Not talking to you on the phone is a way of making sure that you don't know where she is from until you finally meet her...

5- She has a very special (strange) voice
Many women, dislike listening to their own voice because they simply can't stand it.  So, when this voice has something particular/disturbing they logically try not to expose it. An escort who is ashamed of her voice because she speaks like Mickey Mouse, or because she smokes 2 packs of cigarettes daily will of course do her best to avoid speaking with you on the phone.

When you call an escort, her voice can be a turn on, or a turn off: check it out first if it is an important criterion for you.

6- She does not host at a private location
Many low to average escorts in Switzerland who wish to become independent will copy those who succeeded as independent escort without ever being able to reach their level. They will advertise their locations as 100% private, but the truth often has a different taste...

In Switzerland (where prostitution is legal), only a few independent escorts are really working out of private locations, not shared with any other sex workers.

All the others simply rent a room in an apartment with other escorts or transsexuals with whom they must share their accommodation.  In that case, when you call an escort, speaking with you on the phone is sometimes only possible when the place is quiet, when flat mates are not too noisy...

A girl working in these conditions may be an independent escort, but she is working in a brothel context which will not match the expectations of a gentleman wishing to call an escort for a discreet date.  


7- She hates being an Escort
When you call an escort, do you think most of them love what they do? Well, they don’t. Most of them deeply hate this job and what makes them stay in this industry is money; their Loverboy (some girls have someone playing such a role in their life, unfortunately); they have social or psychological problems/addictions or they have little education and never thought that one day they could change careers…

What I have realized is that, when they have no plans for the future, the longer they stay in this business, the more they hate this job, and the more they tend to show attitudes that should not be accepted by any client. So, when you call an escort, expecting them to pick up the phone and be kind, professional, friendly to clients or potential clients is very complicated for such ladies. They know about their bad habits, their aggressiveness and lack of patience towards customers and therefore, prefer not answering the phone at all.

 
What to remember?
Gentlemen, take my piece of advice: call an escort. A quick phone call rather than a short SMS/Whatsapp message will help to clear and validate the first impression and lead you in making the right decision to booking that lady or not. Despite all this sound advice, don't be polarized. Not all escorts who don't answer their own phones are non-independent. And when you call an escort, just because the girl answers the phone and seems to manage her own appointments doesn't mean she's independent... Trust your instinct: intuition does not lie.
 

Janet – The Velvet Rooms 

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