The BDSM Dominant/Submissive Experience

BDSM is an acronym itself constructed using 3 associated acronyms: BD for Bondage (attachment technique) and Disciplines, DS for Domination and Submission and finally SM for Sado-Masochist.

In practice, BDSM now includes other practices, which are not included in its acronym.

BDSM is a relationship based on role-playing: The Dominant and the Submissive.

A Dominant can be defined as someone with good leadership skills. Able to be both hard and inflexible when he or she has to punish his or her submissive, but also gentle and affectionate when he or she deserves to be rewarded. The "Submissive" must obey the rules of the Dominant as well as satisfy his or her needs and desires. The relationship between Dominant and Submitted must be consensual and each of the protagonists must take pleasure in the role they will play, otherwise it is no longer BDSM...

The terms Master and Slave are also used in BDSM, which adds a notion of belonging and their relationship is materialized by the necklace that the Slave must wear but in practice many Submissives also wear it...

BDSM practices are integrated into the framework of "games" for consenting adults who can take the role of Dominant or Submitted (or both alternately, we then speak of a "switch" partner). The practices used in games can be physical but also psychological and are a clever mix of the two in most cases.

Physical practices can be materialized by constraints and corporal punishment that can be translated into enjoyment if properly administered and if the submissive is confident enough to let go completely, from small spanking to much more severe abuse...

Psychological practices, on the other hand, call for fantasies specific to each person, materialized by scenarios elaborated by the dominant and inflicted on the submissive (humiliation, enslavement, etc.)

Finally, purely sexual relations can be banned in the strict form of BDSM or allowed, in more moderate forms, giving free rein to more lewd games.

A few Escorts offer this service which is usually more expensive than a regular GFE session.

Here are the Velvet-Ladies who offer BDSM sessions: