Sex in bed: 10 things you do in bed that women dislike

When it comes to sex in bed, men are not always "Aces"  (well, OK, neither are women, but that's another story... today, I'm talking about men!).

I do not claim that there is a universal guide to sex in bed because like everything else in life, women and men can love things that are very different from each other. On the other hand, I think there are some big NO-GOs that all men should know about because most women don't always enjoy the type of sex in bed men usually love...

As a man, to help you satisfy your female partner in bed, here are 10 things you should never do during sex in bed :

1- Hit her / pull her hair / bite her very hard

Why she won’t like it: Slapping her on the butt without warning/asking? Biting her nipples to death? No, thank you. Unless she is officially a very submissive woman in bed, she will appreciate being warned beforehand. It's like Brussels sprouts, some people like it, and others hate it. It's always better if you ask your partner what she wants on her plate instead of sticking it down her throat... You know what I mean, right?

2- Get a hickey (in a visible place)

Why she won’t like it: No woman really wants to talk about her sex life to everyone who happens to see her neck because of the total absence of a turtleneck in her wardrobe...

3- Trying anal sex without warning and without lubricant

Why she won’t like it: These things require a prior discussion with your partner because when it comes to sex in bed, anal sex is not really something that all women like/want...

4- Remove her underwear with your teeth

Why she won’t like it: First of all, it's not very elegant of you and then, it can damage the beautiful underwear that she paid a lot of money for...

5- Asking her this question: "Did you come?"

Why she won’t like it: If you ask this question, it is almost 98% certain that the answer will be "no" or she may said "yes" to you and therefore lie precisely so as not to have to hear this question again. Also, during sex in bed, keep in mind that the clear majority of women do not need to reach orgasm to have fun in bed....

6- Coming in her face/hair without asking first

Why she won’t like it: No, but really... seriously... do you think women like that?

7- Not knowing what to do with your fingers and just going too hard "down there"

Why she won’t like it: It's not something you can do abruptly. To make her like it, you have to be delicate, very gentle... If she feels discomfort, she won’t accept you trying it again. And note that even an Escort Girl might have the same type of reaction during sex in bed.

8- Do something seen in a porn movie/read in 50 Shades of Grey

 Why she won’t like it: Just because a woman has found the book/movie enjoyable to read/watch doesn't mean she wants to replay a scene in real life...

9- Do not reciprocate oral sex

Why she won’t like it: Don't you think that a woman can love receiving oral sex as much as you love receiving blowjobs? Unless she explicitly says she doesn’t want/like it, why not sharing that pleasure?

10- Get to the act right away and skipping the foreplay

Why she won’t like it: In case you didn’t know, women really like foreplay... For many of them, it is a “MUST” for a great sex in bed!

Now gentlemen, you can no longer say you did not know… ;-)


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