21 / 06 / 2024
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Punter: When you are caught and recognized...

 

One of the main reasons why a punter goes to see an Escort Girl is to treat himself to something personal that does him good.

Couple of hours get away with an Escort Girl will help the punter to switch off from the daily stress, letting himself be pampered by a nice and lovely person, enjoying a tender erotic massage or a sweet GFE and letting himself go. That visit will take his mind off things, allowing the well-being to sink in. However, one of the punter's numbers one concerns is discretion. How do you please yourself without being caught?

 

When the unexpectable happens

As they say, at some point, all good things come to an end and yes, for a punter, visiting an Escort girl is more often than not, as pleasurable as leaving her. Why so? Because the non-string attach and the return to the real world give the punter that beautiful feeling of freedom and of control over what he wants, when he wants it and how he wants it. Relaxed and with an inner smile, the punter is leaving that oasis of delight when suddenly, something uncomfortable happens, that I bet you would never want this to happen to you:

Having reached that location (or being about to leave her Incall place) where he is about to spend some intimate time with an Escort Girl, the punter recognizes a person he does not actually want to meet at that place. He did not even think for a second that he could bump into someone he knows. A punter sometimes tends to forget that his hobby is often shared by many gentlemen like him who could be his boss, his neighbor or even his wife's best friend…

 

Punter being recognized: it comes down to the attitude

How does a punter supposed to react in such a situation? It is now obvious that he has been an Escort client, and it may be very hard to deny this given the red hearts that light up around the property. So, all is clear. How do you react to the astonished look on the other person's face?

Easier said than done but a punter should not get nervous, and certainly he should try to justify himself or get involved in a story that will be easy to tell and to remembered. The punter should also truly behave like if he had met his “business colleague while doing some shopping”. In this type of situation, just be “normal” and if you radiate confidence, there is little chance that you will be approached/questioned about the place you have just left. Greet the person you’ve just recognized, act normally. At the end of the day, you do not have to justify yourself, and coming out from such a place is not proof of anything. Indeed, if the punter's attitude inspires confidence and calm, then questions such as, “What are you doing here? Where do you come from?” will never be asked to you. If the punter stands there without inhibitions (without looking over his shoulder), with no guilty conscience, and has a body language that does not try to hide anything, then that gentleman will not make himself suspicious in the eyes of others. The fact that the punter is sure of himself will destabilize his interlocutor. Remember: Questions only arise if you behave differently than usual. But you should get mentally prepared for type of situation. Not being taken by surprise and having anticipated this potential scenario will further strengthen the punter's confidence if that moment ever comes.

 

Punter meeting an escort girl: not illegal in Switzerland

Being “caught in the act” with an escort girl can leave a punter feeling ashamed, guilty or even regretful.  But why? As a matter of fact, the punter should keep in mind that paying to get sexual services between consent adults is not illegal in Switzerland, quite the contrary. The moralists among you will certainly see it differently, but let’s face the true:  if there were no such oases of satisfaction, harassment and assaults on women would certainly be more frequent.

For its proper functioning, the body has certain mental and physical needs that must be satisfied at some point. If they are not, other aspects of our lives are affected by this dysfunction. Punter, you are not doing anything wrong here.

 

Punter: On the importance of privacy

Nevertheless, such unexpected encounters are unpleasant for a punter, and you never know what your “wife's best friend” will say. Unless they can guarantee a 100% discretion, punter should not take any risk and rather avoid the Gentlemen‘clubs and the erotic salons by rather arranging a nice rendezvous with a lady who works privately. If discretion and confidentiality are utterly important to a punter, then he cannot go looking in the red-light district but must inform himself on the Internet before booking any appointment with an independent Escort girl. Unfortunately, all too often the ads that are promising a location that is “private and discreet” are not all completely transparent and usually, by the time the punter has reached that location, it may be too late to do U-turn. The encounter will then take place at a location that is neither private nor discreet… It is also often the case that several ladies do share the same apartment, which can be problematic for the punter who is not willing to settle for less than a date that is truly happening at a discreet and private location. These locations are usually characterized by an absence of outside advertising and only one lady by location offering her services at a given time.

 

Choosing the right escort girl

When desire calls, some punters will base their choice of encounters on purely physical criteria, sometimes forgetting the importance that discretion can play in the smooth running of a date with an escort. So yes, I would not be surprised to hear that one out of two punters could not care less about discretion. But for those who do care, it is crucial to learn to recognize red flags that will tip you off and confirm that the escort girl you are planning to meet will offer you the privacy and discretion you are looking for.

Here are three points to look out for: if the exact address of her location of work is openly displayed on her profile, then that place is probably not discreet; if the neighborhood where she entertains does not have a good reputation, it will be inadvisable for the punter to go there; if you are not able to communicate with the Escort girl you have chosen to meet (you do not share any common language for instance), expect communication problems to potentially impact the degree of discretion of the encounter (especially when it comes to getting to her address). Of course, there are many other reasons for anticipating whether your intimate encounter will be private and discreet enough. That is why a punter must learn to be very observant before engaging in an encounter with an Escort girl.   

 

The punter’s general attitude

But it is important to stress that discretion must also come from the punter. I am thinking in particular of the kind of details that can suddenly bring him out of anonymity: parking in the neighbor's parking space (a no-go in Switzerland, which can lead to arguments), arriving well in advance and loitering/smoking around/fronting the escort girl's front door (a non-discreet attitude that can immediately make the punter someone being observed), talking loudly on the phone, in front of the building where the girl the punter is about to meet is located (you never know if someone is eavesdropping on the conversation), forgetting to have your license plate blocked so that your identity cannot easily be traced (this is one of the few services you can get for free in Switzerland, so why not taking advantage of it? ), forgetting personal belongings at the sex worker’s place (make sure not to forget anything, after all, most of the time the escort girl is a total stranger to you), contacting that lady from your personal number (a punter should have a separate number dedicated to his intimate encounters with sex workers)…

The above list is not exhaustive and shows just how much the discretion of the encounter does not rest solely on the escort's shoulders. The punter carries also his part of responsibility in there.

 

To sum up

Discretion is as much the business of the escort girl as it is of the punter. As a punter who values his or her privacy, it is important to learn to pick up on the signals that will keep you away from non-discreet encounters. Switzerland is a very small country, and due to the scale of the country, the sex industry is even smaller and highly concentrated in certain areas. Why taking risks as a punter when all you need to do is be a little more vigilant and less impulsive in your choice of encounters, setting yourself criteria where you will not compromise? The best thing to do for a punter is probably to remain anonymous. As the old saying goes: “To be happy, let's live hidden”. 

 

Janet - The Velvet Rooms

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