Here is why showing up too early at your appointment with an escort isn’t a good idea.

I remember a girl advertising on our website (TVR) who had a mixed experience with a client. Having chatted with the two protagonists, I was obviously taken aback by this meeting, which could have gone better... The two versions of the story that was told to me were not alike, of course.

On the other hand, I believe that what seems to have been the starting point of a lot of frustration for the escort, was when she told me the following:

"He comes to see me for a short encounter, arrives 15 minutes earlier without warning, knocks on the door: I was not ready ..."

From that moment, I understood that this first conflicting contact had made the date difficult because according to her, she did not appreciate at all the company of that client who for her, was not at the level of the other dates had so far.

So, what caused her stress was the fact that the client arrived earlier than scheduled while she was not ready yet.  Indeed Gentlemen, as much as an escort will not appreciate you arriving too late and not informing her about that delay, she also won’t like you to be ahead of the time for a simple reason: she might not be ready yet. Simply arrive at the agreed time.

What to do if you arrive a bit too early at your escort’s date?

Some men hate to be late and therefore, do prefer to arrive earlier. In that case, I suggest you wait in your car for the time to come. Then call or text the Model to let her know you're ready and ask if you can come at her door. As soon as you have her green light (meaning that she is ready too), you can knock on her door. Unless she has told you in advance that you can go straight up and ring her bell, ALWAYS call her before showing up. Avoid arriving 10 to 15 minutes in advance because:

* You are going to create unnecessary stress on the Model because she may not be ready yet. That stress may reflect on the quality of the service the girl will be willing to give you.

* The girl may see it as a disrespectful attitude from your part. A client who knocks at her door 15min before the agreed appointment and without informing of his arrival can be perceived as a mark of disrespect in the eyes of an escort who works following certain standards.

* By arriving too early at her incall place, you might put yourself in an uncomfortable situation bumping into her previous client. If you are meeting an escort near where you live, that client could even be some you know… The situation will then be awkward not only for you but for the other guy too and at some extend, it may impact the girl as well who all of a sudden runs the risk of losing two clients…

*  This attitude of yours may have the girl agreed to see you once but it may be the last time.

And what to do if you arrive late?

In a reverse situation,  as soon as you know that you will be more than 5 minutes late, you must contact the escort to inform her of the situation and apologize in advance. Too much delay on your part could mean that she will have to shorten the time of your meeting or that she will simply not be able to see you (because indeed, you are not the only one who wants to meet her). Do not arrive 15min late without informing her because:

* For many escorts, after a 15mins delay, the appointment is considered as being canceled and many escorts will no longer open the door for you.

* She may agree to see you once but it may be the last time.

Even if you are late, do not knock directly on her door. Always announce yourself first. Call her first to let her know that you've arrived and ask her if you can show up at her door.

And if you need to cancel your appointment, whatever the reason may be, do it in a polite way, as any well-behaved gentleman would do.

Arriving too early at an escort’s date: What should you keep in mind?

Arriving too early at your escort appointment can be counterproductive. For some girls, it's fine and they won’t bother too much, but for others, it can create a negative atmosphere (which you don't need), right from the start of the meeting. Let her know you're there at the appointed time, or 5 minutes beforehand at the earliest. And if she gave you instructions to follow upon arrival, just follow them. Do not do it your way.

Gentlemen, never forget that just because you pay to spend time with an escort doesn't mean that things will go according to your agenda. In the end, it is the escort-girl who decides. Actually, she is the one who will have a great deal of influence on how memorable (or not) the experience will be for you. The key players here being your attitude, your hygiene and your personality.

So, gentlemen, don't take sex workers for granted and make some efforts so that from the first minutes everything goes smoothly, in the best interest of both parties.

Janet -The Velvet Rooms 

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