Your sex date has been cancelled by an escort? Here is why! 

Have you already tried to arrange a sex date with an escort and shortly after your call, the girl cancelled your sex date request? Then your number is certainly already in her "trash list"...

In case you did not know, many sex workers have set up a system that helps them daily to filtrate the good Gentlemen from the "other men".

Because escorts value your time, they also appreciate when their time is equally respected by men who want to visit them. Therefore, they tend to become selective before accepting a sex date with a potential client.

 If your number has landed in their "trash list", this could be for one of the following reasons:

1) You have made a sex date appointment with her in the past and you did not show up at all and did not call to cancel that encounter

2) You tried to negotiate her prices on the phone or once at her Incall location

3) You had a "strange behavior" with her during a past sex date and she felt uncomfortable

4) You asked for sex (intercourse) without condom

5) You have been rude over the phone, you have sent to her SMS or WhatsApp pictures of your intimate areas

6) You were more than 20 minutes late at your sex date and you didn't contact the escort to let her know or even to apologize (no phone call, no SMS or WhatsApp message was sent from you)

7) You have already made several sex dates with one of her friend/colleague and canceled them afterwards, without any particular reasons

If you were once in one of these seven situations, then you are surely part an escort’s unwanted customer list. In that case, she may no longer answer the phone when you are calling for a sex date or she will make sure to blacklist your number to make sure you never get the chance to ever speak to her.

A growing number of independent escorts have a tolerance limit that have become very small, because they don't want a sex date with all men but only the true Gentlemen.

What do I mean by Gentlemen? I'm talking about nice men who are respectful and likeable. They speak/write politely to them. They are interested and interesting. They can express themselves properly, regardless of their social class. Men who value discretion and for whom their time is worth.

All other men who do not fall in this category should not try to seek for a sex date with an independent escort because this is not the type of clientele they wish to cater to.
 

Be delicate but transparent in your communications so that she doesn't feel offended. If you have to cancel your sex date, do so respectfully and with anticipation, so as not to give her the impression that you're playing games with her time.

The aim here is not to burn your cards and leave you all the opportunities to see her (again) in the near or distant future.

One word is enough for the good listener! ;-)


Janet - The Velvet Rooms  

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