18 / 01 / 2025
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The 69 position: Why do many of us love 69?

 

Most of us have tried it already. Some of us do not particularly enjoy it. Many women and even more men love 69 !

For those who need a refresh and still can’t figure out what we are talking about, the 69 position is a sexual position in which two partners simultaneously perform oral sex on each other, typically arranged in a way that resembles the number "69." In this position, one partner lies on top of or beside the other, with their heads positioned near the other's genitals, enabling mutual stimulation.

 

Why do many people love 69?

The 69 position is about mutual pleasure. Both partners are engaged in giving and receiving pleasure at the same time, fostering a sense of equality and intimacy.

Moreover, the simultaneous stimulation of giving and receiving pleasure does usually create an intense sensory experience. People love 69 because it offers a change from traditional sexual activities, adding variety and excitement to a sexual relationship.

The physical proximity and simultaneous focus of the 69 position on each other's pleasure do enhance emotional connection and intimacy for many men and women.

Those who love 69 know that it requires coordination, as both partners need to balance giving and receiving pleasure simultaneously to make the best of the experience.

But some may find it hard to fully enjoy receiving pleasure while also concentrating on giving it, which can make the experience feel mechanical rather than intimate.

 

Why do some people dislike 69?

The 69 position, while popular is not universally loved. Many people dislike it for several reasons related to comfort, focus, and personal preferences.

Not only some find it hard to focus on both giving and receiving (leading to a less enjoyable experience for one or both partners), but some people may feel they can't give their best effort while also trying to enjoy the sensations they're receiving. Along the same lines, it may be harder to fully relax and focus on reaching orgasm while trying to stimulate the other person.

Those who love 69 are not bother by the fact that the positioning can be awkward or uncomfortable, particularly for couples of different heights or sizes. Lying on top of someone or having someone lie on top of you can feel physically restrictive.

On top of that, maintaining the 69 position for an extended period may strain the neck, back, or legs, detracting from the experience.

Another drawback to the 69 position is the lack of eye contact. For some, intimacy during sex is enhanced by making eye contact or other emotional connections, which are challenging in the 69 position.

 

Do escorts love 69?

The 69 position is often glamorized in media, leading to unrealistic expectations about its appeal and practicality.

Unlikely as it may seem, not all escorts love 69. Beyond the position, it's the act itself that bothers some of them. Giving a blowjob to their client is no problem, but accepting a cunnilingus is for many of them an issue, and they won't hesitate to mention it in their advertising. Not providing the 69 position to their clients it’s part of the limits some of them set for themselves. Personal choice, which must naturally be respected by customers interested in meeting them.

So, gentlemen, if you love 69 and it's an experience you want to enjoy with an independent escort, read her profile carefully first, even if it means asking her again when you contact her to confirm an appointment. That way, you won't be put off by a rejection just as you're about to get into the 69 position...

 

Janet - The Velvet Rooms

 


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