27 / 10 / 2024
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What does Golden Shower mean?

 

In the sex industry, they are a lot of terminologies used to describe sexual practices but very often, their meaning isn’t quite obvious. That’s the case with the term Golden Shower. This practice can be intriguing to many of you. In this article, let’s discover what is it all about!

 

What is a Golden Shower?

The sexual practice of a Golden Shower, also known as urolagnia, is when one partner urinates on or near another, is often associated with specific psychological and sensory factors. During the Golden Shower, urine can be poured on the body, on the face but also in the mouth of the person who wishes to experience this service.

Among escort clients, it is noted that men are more in demand for the Golden Shower practice than women who are generally the ones who provide this service at the request of men.

 

Psychological allure of control and power

The Golden Shower practice plays into the dynamics of dominance and submission, which are central to certain sexual interests and fetishes. The act of urination can be symbolic of control over another person or, conversely, complete submission, especially when one both partner consents to an activity seen as socially or physically "extreme." This power play can heighten the intensity of the experience, as it introduces elements of psychological thrill.

 

The taboo of the Golden Shower

Golden Shower creates a power exchange dynamic that tend to appeal to many men (and women) wanting to explore unconventional intimacy and control.

Sexual arousal can be intensified by doing something that feels taboo or socially forbidden. The Golden Shower is usually considered as something “weird”, which can make the act feel "naughty" or "forbidden," amplifying the excitement in many people. This concept, called transgressive arousal, suggests that certain forbidden activities can trigger more intense responses by stepping outside of social norms.

 

The Golden Shower: a physical and sensory experience

The warmth and sensation of a Golden Shower itself can create a unique physical sensation that may be pleasurable. The warmth, wetness, and unexpected nature of the sensation offer something different from traditional sexual touch, which can add to arousal. Men attracted to sensory experiences, especially those considered outside the usual sexual activities, may find it satisfying on a purely physical level.

 

A question of trust and intimacy

Engaging in a Golden Shower requires a level of trust and openness between partners that may be greater than in other activities. The willingness to engage in something vulnerable and unconventional can deepen emotional intimacy, as both parties rely on mutual consent and openness. For many, this vulnerability leads to a heightened sense of connection and bonding.

That is why, if you are a man looking for this type of service, choose a partner (or an escort) that you already know and that you have seen several times and with whom you have a connection.

 

Mastering the Golden Shower: easier said than done!

By choosing to experience the Golden Shower, you have therefore ensured that the girl who will piss on you has a certain open-mindedness and that this practice does not put her off. But that's not all! For the experience to be truly enjoyable for you and done on a professional level, it is very important that she has already practiced the Golden Shower before. Indeed, as strange as it may sound, it is a difficult technique and not all escorts are able to offer this service (despite what they claim) for three major reasons:

 

1) The girl must have drunk enough water (at least half a liter) 30 minutes to 1 hour before the date. If not, the whole experience may simply not occur.

2) She must then hold back from urinating until the moment when her client will express his desire for the Golden Shower. This can be a few minutes after their date but as a general rule, it is a service that comes rather towards the end of the encounter. So, if the client has chosen to spend an hour in her company, she will have to be able to hold back for at least 40 minutes while offering him a regular GFE or PSE service.

3) Finally, when the time comes to urinate, the ideal would be for her to be able to do it in a sequenced manner. Meaning that, she must be able to make the pleasure last for her client and not urinate all at once but rather in a rhythmic but discontinuous manner.

 

So, you understand why only very few women (including escorts) can perform such a practice. And even when it is the man seeking a submissive escort who would agree to have the Golden Shower performed on her, the requirements of the practice are similar.

So once you have chosen the right partner to have this Golden Shower, clarify if you want to experience it in an active way (you urinate on the partner) or in a passive way (the partner urinates on you) and make sure that the location (either Incall or Outcall) where the practice will take place has a bathtub (the shower cabin is neither practical or recommended for a great the Golden Shower experience).

 

Here is what to keep in mind about the Golden Shower

Sexual interests and fetishes are complex, often shaped by unique personal experiences, and the Golden Shower may become associated with arousal for some due to past experiences or through curiosity and exploration in adult relationships.

Because Golden Shower involves psychological arousal from power dynamics, taboo-breaking excitement, sensory pleasure and relational intimacy, these elements make the practice uniquely appealing to a minority of individuals and deepen the range of experiences they seek within intimate and consensual relationships.

 

Janet – The Velvet Rooms

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