Escorts who send reminders: What should you do?

Gentlemen, some of you are single or living apart and have no problem with the issue we are going to discuss in this article. For others, it might be a different story ...

While trying to call them, many escorts will not answer calls from a hidden number. Therefore, you are expected to call so that they can see who is trying to reach them.

I'm sure this has happened to you before: you went to see an independent escort and a few weeks / months later you received an SMS / WhatsApp from her in which she informs you that she is back. The problem is that these messages are spontaneous, unpredictable, often unwanted and you never know exactly what they contain (some can be very explicit). In addition, they can arise at the worst time (you are already in bed or watching TV with your wife, you are at the table with your family and the phone is in plain sight, you are attending a meeting at work...).

I am sure that you would prefer not to get such messages, especially if you did not ask to receive them. If after you kindly ask her not to message you anymore, she continues to do so, here are some precautions to take:

Use a separate phone

As I already mentioned in a previous article; I advise you gentlemen to use another phone for your secret escapades. I know it's much more convenient to manage all from one number but frankly I don't recommend it. Unless you are single (well, even that), it's putting yourself in a risky situation and jeopardizing your daily life. In a married life, there are things that unfortunately must remain secret and if your partner is not the type to accept this, do everything so that she never knows about it. For this, always use a separate phone for your dates with escorts. Preferably an old phone without traceability (no smartphone). A very simple phone that allows you to call and send SMS. Turn it on when you have a date with an escort and once the encounter is over, turn it off to remain unreachable. The goal: contacting escorts whenever you wish to and avoiding unwanted messages.

Block her number

I know it might sound a little shocking to write this, but sometimes the circumstances don't leave any choice to do otherwise. If you cannot or do not wish to have to manage two phones, be sure to block (SMS, calls and WhatsApp) the escort number and erase it from your phone, once the date has taken place. Unless it is an escort that you see regularly and who does not usually send unwanted messages without you agreeing to it; I advise you to block numbers of other girls and unblock them once you want to get back in touch. The goal: contacting escort whenever you want to and avoiding unwanted messages.

Save her number under a male name

This technique is only recommended for escorts you see regularly (you already know them well). You will have already told them that you do not wish to receive messages but sometimes they may still have to send you one to confirm an appointment, cancel a date, ask you an important question ... If you have chosen to use your unique phone number for all your calls (including those from your secret life), I strongly advise you to save the name of your favorite escorts under male first names and systematically erase all WhatsApp and text messages exchanged between you. For example: Carlo (for Chloé), Ronny (for Robi) or even Nicolas (for Nicole). Just as a precaution. Even if you have your phone with you 95% of the time, you never know who it may fall into, when you least expect it. Also don’t forget to deactivate the option on your phone which displays received messages on your screen.

Measure the risks and keep your distance

The vast majority of escorts do not understand that for many clients, going to see them is always a risk. Since they are not really aware of your situation, it is up to you gentlemen to be careful and to expose yourself as little as possible to preserve your anonymity as much as possible and / or to avoid problems.

As for you ladies, you should know that most customers cannot stand receiving your reminder messages. It’s not discreet, it’s not classy, it's unwanted and even worse, it can cause you to lose clients who find you intrusive and will prefer to never contact you again. Indeed, remain discreet in your approach. If a client really wants to see you again, he'll know where to find you, believe me. It's his job to contact you, not the other way around.

Janet – The Velvet Rooms

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