Why do many escorts prefer older men?

Since I have been in this industry, there is a sentence I must have heard hundred times at least from escorts: „The older they are, the better! „

Does that surprise you? You probably thought it was the opposite, but when you think about it, it makes perfect sense. In general, escorts enjoy more the company of older clients than that of much younger men.

If you are an older man (60 years old and over), you can consider yourself lucky when it comes to meeting escorts!

Independent escorts can choose

As you may know by now, when escorts work for an Agency, they usually do not have much to say on whom they are being sent to or the type of person they are going to be spent time with… Conversely, real independent escorts such as can choose who they want to see and most of them always appreciate spending time with much older men.

You certainly wonder why is this so? Why do escorts prefer older men?

Key reasons why escorts are keener on older men

Well, in my opinion older men are more appreciative. Indeed, they tend to appreciate a woman better and respect her choices and decisions, more than a younger man would.

For instance, if the girl is not disposed to trying any sex position while they are together, an older man tends to respect her decision, but a younger man often tries to push for it and put his opinion above that of escorts.

Some younger men can be aggressive while dealing with escorts (dominant, insulting, directive attitude, disrespectful, impatient...), while an older man will rarely push her against her wish as he has more mature perspective and orientation on the matter.

Older men have come to the point to understand that escorts should be treated like any other ladies and not like a sex toy only available to satisfy sexual urges. As a result, escorts can keep intact their sense of pride while spending time with an older man.

Moreover over, talking from experience, mature men are amazing lovers!

And this makes them more attractive to escorts than younger men. Many younger gentlemen (not all of them fortunately!) see escorts purely as a convenience and many will care little for how escorts feel; as far as they are concerned, their own feelings are the only thing that matters to them. They are also very much focused on performance, thing that older clients are less obsessed about.
 

Life experience gives the older man a different perspective. Aside from meeting his sexual desires, he also puts into consideration the feelings of the lady in his company. He has enough experience to know what makes a woman smile, and he is ever willing to meet her needs too because he understands that in this kind of transactional relationship with escorts, it is the give-and-take attitude that makes the meeting a success.

Meeting escorts: You don’t stand a chance as a young adult?

So it is obvious that one should not fall into stereotypes. Even if what has been stated in this article is true in the vast majority of cases, young adult men also have every chance with escorts! Moreover, it should be noted that younger escorts will tend to prefer the company of younger men rather than dating with older clients.

Actually, it does not matter what your age is, it is all about attitude. It is your attitude towards escorts that makes all the difference! As long as you know how to show them respect, care and that you are well-groomed, friendly and non-judgmental, your chances of being one of their favorites clients is high and this, regardless of your age!

And to all the young fellows out there…Don’t worry, you will also be an older man someday! ;-)

Janet - The Velvet Rooms 

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